Why can’t I get wet for my boyfriend anymore?💦?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5 months. I used to get so wet for him when we first started dating but now I can’t get wet at all. We have been using lube but I feel bad bc he thinks I’m not into him bc of it. It just seems like my 🐱 isn’t working for some reason. Any advice or tips?

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  • Ay yo girl sorry to hear about that, must be hella frustrating. Hormones can be wild like that sometimes I guess.

    Few things that might help get thangs wet again though - try spicing it up in the bedroom maybe? Add some new toys, positions, role play - surprise him to get that excitement back. Foreplay is key too, let him take his time eating you out n stuff first so you're good n moist.

    Another thing, are you real stressed lately with school, fam issues? Stress can dry a girl out fo sho. Try relaxing more, takin long baths, gettin massages. Chill time is wet time amirite?

    And don't be afraid to use your mouth girl! Ain't nothing wrong with a little helper, get him good n hard with your lips first so it slides right in after. Y'all having fun is what matters.

    Don't overthink it, just try some new stuff and remember what got you crushin in the beginnin. It'll come back, pun intended lol. You got this sis!

    • Aw thanks this was really helpful. U rock 🪨 💗

    • You’re welcome mama and aww thank you, you’re too kind ❤️❤️

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  • Can you orgasm? Do you get aroused during sex? I take it you don't get wet at any stage, is that right?

    Do you think it would help if he spent more time on foreplay? At your age I just wanted to get inside my girl. At the first hint of moisture I was up to the hilt. So I am thinking boyfriend may not be giving you much chance.

    I think it would be good to know the answers to the first few questions.

    • I get aroused during sex. I just find myself laughing when he tries to turn me on lately. I just can’t get into it for some reason. Not sure why. I just can’t take him serious. Like when we actually fuck I like it but everything before that just isn’t great anymore

    • Thanks for a MHO. Laughter is akin to fun and laughter isn't necessarily at him. I can see you would be disappointed foreplay doesn't feel great anymore and that he might feel inadequate that his magic is not working now. I think not taking it too seriously is the right response and just joking about being a difficult bitch would help relieve tension that would get in the way otherwise.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Either look into any changes you’ve made that would effect your hormone levels or maybe it’s vaginismus or something similar

  • Here, you want to get wet, I got something for you.

    Why can’t I get wet for my boyfriend anymore?💦?
    • Thanks queen💖

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  • You said it makes you laugh when he tries to turn you on, why?

  • maybe the substance used causes cat to go to sleep? body adapts to what you do to it.

    dehydrated?

    emotional issues?

    this Q... is above my pay grade... or maybe below it...

  • Do you get wet when you masturbate? There's a difference between you can't get wet at all and you can't get wet for him.

    • Yes I get wet when I masturbate

    • With the same size (roughly) toy? If so then it's psychological. Are you angry/stressed/shy? Where's your head at when you're about to do it?

  • Your pussy sounds like it needs a vacation

  • It may be lack of interest or maybe a medical issue.

  • Do you still manage to acheive an orgasm?

  • Well maybe you're just not into him. The other day you posted that you thought he was gay, that he didn't want sex. Maybe it's just not meant to be.

  • Maybe try different kinds of foreplay, or fantasies (role play, teasing, Dom/sub things if either of you are turned on by that)?

  • Sounds like the initial "honeymoon" phase of dating for you is over. You're likely in a rut and aren't doing anything "new". Have you tried doing something new, see if something changes

  • What gets you wet now?

  • Go see a doctor first. It might be a physical problem

  • Try new things

  • maybe u need an oil change

  • Relax, play without sex for a longtime. Just try to turn each other on. Teach him how to touch you. Let him watch you touching yourself. And DON'T forget kissing and toys!

  • Could be some lifestyle changes or health related stuff, or you’re just bored of him sexually now

  • Let me do your gspot that get you wet
    For instruction pm me

  • He is no longer a turn on

  • honestly loosing a interest, fireworks finished.

  • you dont love him anymore or you are sick

  • Is your boyfriend Ron Desantis?

    If he's not him, then see a gynecologist for a quick exam. Make sure it's a specialist and not a general gynecologist.

    • Sadly he is Ron desantis!!😕