Why can't I get wet when I'm drunk?

I love sex and can easily be turned on when I'm sober. But when I'm drunk I have trouble getting wet and its so frustrating because then my vagina stays too tight and its more difficult for the guy to put his penis inside me. It's so embarrassing especially when their penis keeps coming out when they thrust. I've been eaten out and we've done foreplay and I've done the best I could to relax but it just seems like I can't have sex and be drunk at the same time. Does alcohol really affect lubrication?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I believe that this isn't that common. You should inquire to you doctor or heck just Google it mija. But can you believe that after smoking marijuana I can't get a hard on. Lol Seriously though one puff and it's over. I've NEVER understood why that is either. So I don't smoke it at all now. It's been 12 years since I've smoked any. I now know I'm not the only person who dysfunctions like this. Thank you for posting this Lol I'm not alone!!!

  • I'm the say way. If I'm pretty wasted It's kinda hard for me to even get an erection. I usually tend to feel kind of nauseous after some heavy drinking and not really in the mood to have sex anyways. I prefer to save sex for when I'm a bit more sober.

Most Helpful Girls

  • buy some lube

    i've been on birth control for like 3 years and its kinda hard for me to get wet period
    lube is awesome

    • Does birth control affect wetness

  • Your mind and body aren't on the same wavelength when you're drunk, which can have that affect.

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  • Alcohol affects everything and many people in different ways. Just have him lubricate with KY or something.

  • The problem is that alcohol dehydrates you. that is not the only factor though. alcohol changes how your brain functions so it could be that you aren't getting wet cause the alcohol messes with your head which messes with your body.

    Hope this helps you out. sorry i don't have a way to fix it.

  • People don't really know this, but in reality, alcohol kinda kills the ability to have sex when you're wasted. For guys, if they're really drunk, they can't get a big boner like they would want to if they're a lusty drunk. Same goes for women I assume.