Why can’t I make my boyfriend cum when I suck his penis?

We’ve been together for a year and he never cums when I suck him. He said that he feels good, but that’s not enough to make him cum. What if he’s just saying that so I won’t feel bad?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You can ask him why he won’t cum? Communication is so important. For me some things than works is eye contact. I also love when she looks up and scratches my chest or nipples or legs with her nails. Maybe it’s speed or mouth grip? Read his queues if he’s enjoying more slow or fast and then read the grip as you change. Make sure your mouth is always very wet. Dry can hurt. I love a nice slow intimate one with her hand gripping my shaft below her mouth not real tight but looser. Maybe massage and scratch his balls or area underneath. If she’s into it and not doing it because it’s forced or just to please him, the results show! I don’t even mind when she slides a pinky in my but and works toward my prostate when she’s giving me a bj. It is mind blowing!

  • First of all tell him that you want him to cum in your mouth. That you want to taste him. Then, as you’re blowing him play with his perenium and butt hole (DO NOT put your finger in him). Slight pressure with a circular motion will help him along. If that doesn’t make him cum then he may just be one of those guys that can’t cum with oral.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Maybe he's subconsciously worried about doing it in your mouth, because he probably knows that not all girls like that. If you want him to cum during oral then perhaps just use your hand until the very last minute and change to sucking him when he's at the point of no return.

  • Not every man cums from oral just like not every woman orgasms from oral. It’s a general statement that either loves it. But talk with them if they like what you’re doing they’ll say so

  • Some dudes take a long time to. And some just can't from just oral

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  • I don't cum from oral unless I'm face fucking. But heis telling the truth that it feels great. I rather get oral, be super hard then have sex anyway.

  • Meh, some guys just can't get off that way.

  • There are a lot of guys that deal with foreplay not being enough for them to cum. Don't worry about it. Trust that.

  • I'm the same way. Some guys just can't. It has nothing to do with you.

  • Maybe you don't go rough enough. Or try asking him if he likes what you're doing and go a bit harder or faster then. Try massaging balls too to see how he reacts

    He is telling the truth, don't feel down because of that! :)

  • I don't know why this boyfriend did not cum. But I had a boyfriend that never came by oral also.

  • Try it with blower machine.

  • I have that same problem. I've only had one girlfriend my whole life that was able to make me cum when she gave me blow jobs. Some girls are just really good at it and some are not.

  • Some people just don't cum from oral alone, that doesn't mean it's your fault or that you're bad at it

  • Sometimes it takes a while- believe me, it feels good

  • It can take a long time for some. Ask him what you can do to make it feel better

  • Relax

  • Some guys just don't get off on blowjobs, or it could be you're not that good at it (no offense)

  • Your not sucking hard enough.

  • Have you tried using more teeth?

  • I think you might be giving weak blow jobs, like putting a penis in a bucket of water, its wet but thats about it, try sucking harder.

  • Well you could try looking up ways to suck a penis. You should probably focus on the tip or if you have braces. Good luck making him cum lol

  • He's not just saying it, try mixing it with a bit of hand action to hurry him along a little

  • Is he very large? I can't find from bjs either because not enough actually gets stimulated by the mouth. Added handwork helps.

  • Does he jerks off a lotss, loll😀😌😌

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