Why can't I orgasm using my hands?

Question

I have to hump a pillow to cum.

Dargil · Accepted Answer

Perhaps you don't have good technique. I can't see how this can be because masturbation is "interactive" and gives you immediate positive or negative feedback.
But here's a suggestion. Using PornHub or X-Hamster. Use the search function and ask specifically for "orgasm contractions". The clips are primarily female hand masturbation driven. I favor "Asian", but that is probably a personal bias. The point here is these women had to do something right to reach orgasm at all. If you watch the clips, you will see a pattern of how they do it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Putting "muscle" into it helps bring on the orgasm. The fact that you're using your abs and hips to move on the pillow.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It might be just cause it’s what you’re used to?

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Everyone has different things that get us off. you may have conditioned yourself to only cum with a pillow edge. try putting your hand in a pillow case and ride your fingers,