Sexual Relationships
15 d

Why can't men be satisfied with one sex partner?

I'm dating a guy who is a good guy, not abusive, or even mean. He had a twisted sexual desire such as letting other men have sex with me, he wants sex with men, always wants me to dress/be slutty or whore like even calls me that. I get fantasy but where do I draw the line? His ex girlfriend did these things with him, anal sex with strap on, etc. He broke up with her because she cheated IKR? Now he has trust issues yet still wants this life in bed. To me its very dangerous and he's putting us at risk. I'm afraid if I give in, I will hate him for it, he will use it against me, ans truly start looking at me like a whore. We have a great sex life, why can't that be enough? Is this a deeper problem within him? Should I get out while I can? Please someone shine some light on this.

0 1

AI Bot Choice

Superb Opinion

  • Some of us can be satisfied with just one sexual partner, but to be honest, you have to find the right one for you, and I’m not talking about 10 women in a month to find out which one is for you the best way to find out in my opinion is to be totally honest with what you’re saying, and ask The hard questions Hopefully, you get honest answers and you can move forward in the manner you feel is right for you having said all that we are all built differently, and some people rather than a relationship love the adventure of being with others while being with you it’s sad, but that’s how it is

Most Helpful Guy

  • That's an interesting question coming from a woman given the widespread promiscuity we see among today's women.

    You ask why men can't be satisfied with one sex partner and then go one to explain your reason for the question is one particular guy with some very unusual sexual behaviors. He is far from representative of most men. I have never had sex outside of a committed, monogamous relationship, and that's true of the majority of guys I know and have discussed these things with.

    Stop perpetuating unfounded stereotypes.

Most Helpful Girls

  • He wants to be cuck if you not want to be hotwife it is problem

  • They can. That particular man just happens to suck.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

Have you ever been naked in front of your sibling or cousin?
Why do I orgasm so rarely during sex but not masturbation?
Do you think it's bad my classmates sexualised me?
Why don't all guys moan loud before they cum?

What Girls & Guys Said

2 19

  • Plenty absolutely can. You calling his kinks twisted should be enough of an answer that he's not the partner for you.

  • Some guys just want to try sex with a lot of different wonderful women. I went through that phase in college and it was fun with a lot of great orgasms.

  • Why are you even asking about this?

    This is absurd you are more than 45 years old and you haven't yet grasped the concept that people like different things and not everyone is going to be compatible with everyone else.

    You aren't right for each other, its glaringly obvious.

    So just break up and move on and fail better next time.

  • For the same reason why rich people buy ferraris, lamb's, bugattis... they want to experience and explore different women. Once they are satisfied and full, time to look for some wife material.

  • Maybe the one girl does not make him feel loved, generally.
    Maybe the one girl declines to provide intimacy that he needs.
    And some guys cheat recreationally.

  • It sounds like a kink. As for what you should do, that depends on you. If this is something that you are not comfortable with and don't want it to continue, then you should stop it. I'm guessing that is how you feel because if you enjoy this, then you would most likely not be asking.

  • Lordy!

  • I couldn't do that. I couldn't let anyone but me have sex with my girlfriend/wife or S/O. Its me or no one. If she does she is cheating. If have sex with anyone else but them, I'm cheating.

    He might be testing. I don't know. If you're not into that then tell him. If he won't agree, get out.

  • Well, they should be

  • Because you are choosing men who are not.

  • it is not satisfied, it's full balls, if the lady of the house keeps them empty he won't want to wander

  • depends if she's everything he wants orginally

  • For the same reason women can't

  • As nice as he is, it sounds like he has different sexual tastes then you and you are not compatible in that regard. If his cravings for this are as strong as you say, he will always be after those things. Sad to say but it might be time to find someone more compatible with you.

  • Based off the story you told me I’m not to positive on we’re that stems from however I’ll say that men like trying different things but once I’m locked down I’m with that one for life unless she wants to try freaky shit like a 4 some lol

  • Its nature of man.

  • Males are programmed to have multiple sex partners!

  • Who says they can't? I have not encountered that problem with the men I've dated.

  • They can.. just not the ones you meet, or are attracted to perhaps?

  • "Why can't my boyfriend be satisfied with one sex partner?"

    There ^ I fixed it for you.

  • Show More (1)

Latest Questions

What’s the wildest place you’ve masturbated in?
If a guy is very horny for you does it mean he is only using you?
Do women enjoy getting on top (sex position) and why or why not?
Your timeline of your underwear worn?
Home >  Sexual Relationships  > Why can't men be satisfied with one sex partner?