Why can't women understand that dating and sex takes practice?

[Ihatethewill]

Why is it that women are unattracted by men with no romantic experiences? Not speaking for all women of course, but at least from my experiences. The relationship with me and my now ex girlfriend was really trial and error. I was socially anxious on our first few dates and she told me that she was turned off by my lack of dating experience. I lost my virginity at early 18 (yeah im a late bloomer) and during our session my now ex girlfriend asked why I kept pulling out and doing a sloppy job. I told her that I have a premature ejaculation issue and that answer left her unsatisfied. I really don't those issues could have been improved on without experiencing them.

I completely understand that sex and relationships take time and practice. I think that women should understand this too. In order to have better sex then you need to have more sex with that partner to feel improvements. Not saying use this as an excuse to have sex, just consider the fact. You don't need to bash me for my lack of skill.

When I'm going to parties at my college friends' dorms some of my female friends talk about how they like great sex. Which is good, but women need to understand that not every guy has a giant toyota lighting cock and some good tounge. Do women really like hopping from experienced guy to experienced guy at a bar and expect that all sex is supposed to be satisfying because learning curves from men are boring?

[kylee2437]

Why stress it? You are 21 , young and have a lot of time to find the one. If a woman started dating you knowing that you don’t have much experience but her deal breaker is not having much experience, that seems like her own personal problem. Doesn’t seem like a worth it person to be with

[Anonymous]

Some women most definitely don’t have the patience to deal with an inexperienced guy. I’m not saying that’s right or wrong, it’s just realistic. That’s not all women though. Many are inexperienced themselves or will put in the time if they like you. Don’t get discouraged. You’ll find someone if you keep at it.

[Djaay]

That goes both ways tho. Although , the ones that have the patients are the better ones to be with.

[IHateBeingaMan]

definetley for men more than women

[Djaay]

Ones your age find that experience with older men. You should do the same with older women.