Why'd a man in his 40s want to have sex with a girl who has zero experience (and he knows it)?

Im 20.

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  • Do you want a new, unopened, "unexperienced" soda right out of the refrigerator, or an opened, half-drunk, "experienced" soda closer to your age off the bar?

    Do you only buy used clothes, or do you enjoy buying and wearing new ones?

    It's difficult to grasp why you wouldn't understand the attraction. But let me help you out.

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    They did a survey of men, from age 20 to age 50, and asked them "at what age are women the most desirable." This chart is the average answer, by age. Virtually ALL MEN prefer young, inexperienced women (except for those just looking for casual sex, who still prefer younger women, but know more "experienced" women are easier to get casual sex from), and they always have. And men who have the status and power to GET this almost always do, regardless of HIS age. Look at Leonardo DiCaprio - he's never dated a woman older than 27, and in fact, every girlfriend he's ever had, at any point along his age, was between 22 and 24 when he got together with her. Why? Because he CAN.

    Average SMV (Social Market Value), by age and sex
    Average SMV (Social Market Value), by age and sex

    THIS chart depicts how the opposite sex values each other, on average, by age, as a potential relationship partner, all else being equal. Notice that women's "market value" as a potential relationship partner is much higher than men's ever is... BUT a woman's value peaks at 22 and it falls below men's value at 30, as her youth and fertility is quickly falling away. This is why women turning 30 is called "hitting the wall" - it's when women discover that they're suddenly getting FAR less attention from men than they're used to receiving, and especially much less from the men they find MOST attractive themselves. In their 20s, they could easily get attention from these men (by offering sex, or at least the hope of sex), but at 30, even that isn't enough to get male attention when there are women in their 20s in the world.

    Men, as the graph shows, are not born with value (women are bestowed with value upon hitting puberty) - rather, men have to WORK and STRUGGLE and EARN whatever value they eventually have, which is why it takes a lot longer for men to become valuable - but it's also why men's value is sustained for much longer.

    As a woman, your YOUTH and PURITY are the MOST VALUABLE things you have to offer as a relationship partner, and if you squander them instead of securing a relationship with them while you have them, then your prospects in the future will be much, much lower than what they are in your 20s. And that's true whether you like it or not - just as it's true that men have to start at zero and earn their value, whether they like it or not.

    Most women fail to grasp these truths until it's far too late, and they've squandered their youth and purity on other things. A woman's education, degrees, career, status, and money don't come anywhere close to making up for a lack of youth and purity, as the graph clearly shows. Women value those things in men (as reflected in the graph), but men do NOT value those things in women - we value Youth and Purity, along with a few other things like femininity - over all else.

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  • 1. You have no experience so you have no comparison with his lovemaking and his penis size. He knows he's the best you've ever had because you've had no other.
    2. There's something sweet about being someone's first.
    3. Being young, you are good-looking.
    4. Being young, you are more easily moldable into someone for a good relationship.
    5. Often, men like to be teachers / daddies / gentle authority figures to help guide the less experienced.

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  • Yeah, honestly, I think it's weird as well. I am 47 and honestly, I want nothing to do with a woman that lacks experience. Makes me feel weird.

    But some guys get off on it, like a fetish or something. Seriously weird, like at 47 I can look at a 20-year-old woman and see her as a grown adult. Her body might be grown, but at 20... she's a child and that feel wrong to me.

  • Because he believes in his mind that the girl is open to anything sexually and if she says no, he will try to convince one way or another (with expressions, gifts, and gestures) to get his will. For some it’s a total turn on that they will be the “master” and her “an innocent newbie”.

  • Because you look sexy to him. You make his dick hard. It's not very complicated.

  • Well it technically legal, young girls are looking best, and inexperienced girls are not dirty.

  • He’s a pervert and wants sex…

  • Because you are fresh on the market and he can show you some things

  • That's a perfect opportunity for him to do whatever he wants with her, because she doesn't know any better. It's also an opportunity to teach her.

  • She is fresh, uncorrupted and new. In that fantasy world, I would to treat her like a princess.

  • maybe it is something about doinking young stuff or to be the first?
    That is a pretty big age difference and also on a maturity level.
    What would you have in common?

  • he finds you attractive, and he can teach you what he likes.

    What do you want?

  • do u really want that?

    • It's a large gap aye, even if legal, still crikey, I wouldn't wanna date personally a woman 40 or 50. I'm 30. I'd rather stick to my own gen.

    • @itsclearlynicholas yes indeed

  • If he's looking for a committed relationship it's understandable based on the statistics. If not then there are too many variables to know the reason.

  • Sexual experience is bad, 20 year age gaps is also bad, he probably figured no women his age are virgins.

  • Personally I wouldn't at 30 wanna date someone who's 18. That said, someone at 40 wanting to date someone who's 20, crikey yikes what a gap, hell it's legal yet what a gap. Anyways, i for one think that humans are fickle creatures, and were it me, I'd rather "stick to someone my own size/age" lol as a play on words sayings much like "at 30, I should stick to 20s or at the most, age 20" lol. When I'm 35, no younger than 25. And when I'm 40, no younger than 30. Lol see my jam? 🥪

    • Had that been *bachelor me* swinging like a swinger 1960s. Meanwhile I enjoy single life bliss 😀

    • In actual reality, 😋

  • Because you attractive, it doesn't matter if you have had no experience. Men like virgins

  • You don't have to be experienced, what does it mean to be experienced? Some women have been at it for 20 years and they're not 'experienced'. If the chemistry is right, you don't need experience. Don't ask yourself what he wants with you. Ask yourself what you want. Then ask him what he wants. Then set the boundaries and if he's serious and he ticks all the boxes for you, pursue. Eg, are you after marriage, just a casual relationship, a serious relationship? a lot of things have to be taken into account, but worrying about being inexperienced... should be the least of your worries.

  • No bad habits to undo. And some are very eager to learn at that age.

  • Probably gives him a hell of an ego trip.

  • The idea of showing her the ropes, turns him on

  • So he can manipulate you.
    And old men likes to have sex with young girls.
    Makes them feel young.

    • Haaa. That's not why

    • 😆😆😆defensive much?

    • Oh okay, and you prefer older men because it makes you feel old.

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