Guys, Why did he (34) want sex without a condom?

He knows I am not on birth control, he's 34 so I'm sure he's well aware of the different ramifications. I'm 23 and made sure to grab one but he said 'its already in'. I could not believe it, we aren't even exclusive and he was willing to try that. Why would a guy do this?

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  • To maximize self indulgence. He is a little old to be so childish, really. This is symptomatic of why girls shouldn't date men much older than them - because the sort of men who would date women much younger than them tend to be vastly immature.

    • Yes it's taken me a while to see this.. I was hoping by going for someone older it would help to find someone mature but he acts younger than he is

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  • Cause it honestly does feel better but yeah he should wear a condom if you want him too. You both have a part in this and it sounds you are the only one who taking the responsibility and knows the consequences if you don’t use protection. Maybe tell him why you want him to wear a condom and if he still refuses then no pussy for him.

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  • Because it feels good and he’s being selfish and careless.

  • Perhaps he was in the moment and he's selfish? Who knows if he was going to pull out or not.

    Talk to him over the phone over this. No condom, no sex. He has to respect your boundaries.

    • Even if he was going to pull out what about precum.. it was very selfish I was surprised. I don't think I'll be meeting him again. He seems to only want sex and is hesitant to take me out

  • Because he's selfish and he wanted to? Why is that important?

  • Because he only considers now, not later. Probably made a series of bad choices in life.

  • Because he dont care about the consequences

    • Even if It means having a baby 👀 Christ.. I was taken back when he said that

    • Do u not see how people abandoned their kids

    • Yeah ofcc

  • It feels better, he wants to cum in YOU, NOT a rubber bag.

  • Doesn't care about your boundaries or the consequences.

  • make babbies or it just feels so much better or it's a spure of moment thing you fust both need to fuck and enjoy each other...

  • Stupid maybe? You should make the rules. No glove, no love.

  • baby he wants to breed you.

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