Why did he ask me what I wanted from him after giving him a BJ and swallowing his cum?

[Anonymous]

I have been pushing out with this guy for like a week or two, he likes the classy girls, beautiful girls, too much of lady-ish and girls who do designer cloths yet am strictly the opposite. i am a half a tom boy, am so emotional and i like working for a living, i have the class but in my own way. so yesterday i called him for a drink which was supposed to be on me but he refused me to pay, we talked about a lot of things and went to the car to leave for home, i proposed that we sit for a while in the car before we set off, while in the car we did some good kissing and in the process i gave him a BJ and he moaned and called my name out like crazy, i liked it, it was so sexy of him but after he came and i swallowed his cum, he kept on asking me what i wanted from him. he won't say that he loves me though i see it but asking me what i wanted from him was way out. he said it was perfect but again asked me what i wanted from him.

[Samathoo]

Oooh girl. How long have you guys known each other? You sound a lot like me though. In all honesty, he sounds like a nice guy! He paid for your drinks and he is interested to know what you want from him. Any guy could’ve been like k thanks bye. and he wouldn’t have had to ever talk to you again. I’d say he’s asking if you want an exclusive relationship or if you want friends with benefits? please cuff this man.. make him yours. he sounds like a keeper. and I’m sure he won’t have an issue with making you his girl. or maybe he was thinking you wanted something out of.. money? who knows! just be straight forward with him, tell him what you want, don’t beat around the bush. good luck to you though! I hope this works out! message me if ya ever wanna talk about it, I’ve been in many relationships so I could probably help ya out.

[Asker]

thanks girl this is encouraging ama tell him exactly how i feel

[Samathoo]

yay!!

[Asker]

Hit my inbox girl

[Dragon6901]

An excellent response! Thank you!

[Samathoo]

Thank you!

[Samathoo]

And I don’t know what your regular account is since this is on anon!

[Alisha_21]

What does he mean by what you want from him... like, it's fucking obvious girl... I don't like his character... how long have you known him? please dig into his past and know what kinda person he is cause he could just be using you for all you know! but I till hope that you get what you want. Best of luck!

[devilish-cutie]

well why not say you want to be exclusive with him?

[Asker]

i like him infact i love him but we are both too proud to admit it to each other

[devilish-cutie]

but maybe you should and if he is worthy of your time hell want to be with you if not i strongly suggest to let him go

[PhenomenalPancake]

He thinks that you blew him to get something out of him instead of just because you winged to. He's just suspicious of your motives. Either that or he just wants to know how you feel about him, what kind of relationship you wnt to have with him (FWB, relationship, just friends, etc).

[Mega_illuminati]

either he hopes or he is worried that you are just having fun with him with no emotional attachment.

[Asker]

may be but if only he knew how much i need the emotional attachment, he would just go ahead and decide

[Mega_illuminati]

Someone will have to take initiative. Either you, or hin.

[SunshineGal]

mmm i dont really like him,,, just tell him that you like him if you do and see his response

[Dragon6901]

Why didn't you tell him directly? You sound like a remarkable woman, would you find being more assertive might male a difference? Thank you for sharing and good luck!

[Justanothersmile]

He sounds like a guy that is just... Real :) he just wants to return the favor and maybe he actually really emotionally likes you!

[Gramer]

Yes that's true but do you think some guys don't prefer to reciprocate the oral? :D

[Names93]

You can see that he loves you? Or you can see that he loves getting blowjobs off you?

[Asker]

we can't say he loves getting blow jobs from me because it was the first time i gave it to him

[Names93]

So has he been in love with you more than once?

[rickbrown6032]

You sure he wasn't married or someone that used to being taken to the cleaner bye people over thing think about it

[Asker]

his single, how i know is because he happens to be my workmate's brother

[rickbrown6032]

Then something bugging him and maybe it's not you it's him but that dumb thing to ask you

[AydenHazor]

It sounds like he's looking to determine what the relationship is between you and also how he can please you in return.

[danny6563]

He was... May be feeling like... You did this for me.. now i will do anything for you... Name it...

[Asker]

i will be so happy if that's the case

[danny6563]

U felt different?

[Asker]

Yeah , at that particular moment all i wanted was to just do that

[danny6563]

You did it in the best way... He never had such experience before... Now you can go ahead n ask if he wants you in his life... If you think you both are made for each other... Because this act can break the ego barrier in between.

[Asker]

i think i will have to ask then

[danny6563]

Yes sure...

[Danael31]

"It sounds like he's looking to determine what the relationship is between you and also how he can please you in return." I agree

[Asker]

wow that would be perfect

[masterkamasutra]

you taken his cum easily, he thinking its for some reason otherwise girls won't take new cum easily.

[Asker]

i was passionate at that moment

[masterkamasutra]

I understand it but mostly girl not take cum so easily, you done it so it hit his mind.

[Asker]

truth i feel the guy big time and i think that is why it was wasy for me to swallow his cum

[masterkamasutra]

there is many things run in guys mind when a girl take his cum.

[Asker]

kindly name them i would like to know them

[masterkamasutra]

would better tell it in private, follow me would say there not good to share everything in public.

[Asker]

just followed you

[wantfun]

So u can say - i want, love, sex, kiss u after it and etc. I think after good expirience people want to do some good thinks to other ;)

[Anonymous]

He wants to know if you want a relationship or just a friends with benefits. So just tell him.

[Asker]

That works but if i tell him that i want a relationship, he will think i threw myself on him and am too proud to be seen in that way.

[Opinion Owner]

Just tell him you like him, if he doesn't want a full blown relation then just see if he wants a friends with benefits of you're into that kinda thing

[Asker]

that's much better ama ask him

[Opinion Owner]

There's no shame in making the first move, let that be for relationships or sex