Why did he finger my butt?

[Anonymous]

This guy I’m sleeping with is pretty sexually experimental; while we mostly stick to missionary, doggy style, and cowgirl for positions, he also sometimes spanks me, chokes me, holds my wrists, pulls my hair, pinches/pulls my nipples and yesterday, he did something he never did before.. he fingered my butt. He was kind switching back and forth between my vagina and my butt and one point he was fingering me in both. Why do you think he did this? Does he want anal? Or is it something else about it that turned him on?

[Anonymous]

He's essentially "asking" if you are open to anal. It's all common and normal stuff but don't give in to anal if you're not comfortable with it.

The fact you're asking this question tells me you are not experienced with anal. Anal can be great for a woman IF she is prepared for it. And by prepared, I mean she has trained her ass and is comfortable taking something the is hard dick there. If you aren't, DO NOT agree to anal until you have taken the time to prepare yourself, and I don't just mean cleaning yourself.

Doing the splits is easy for a gymnast, but for the average person is is painful and dangerous. The same is true for anal. You sphincter needs to be gently stretched and trained just like any muscle. If you take the time and do it right, chances are you learn to love anal sex. If you try it before you're ready, it will be like doing the splits for someone who hasn't prepared.

[Avcfhcic]

Because there's a chance he wants to do anal yes.
His finger is obviously a lot thinner and he was seeing if you complained or even liked it first just as a test to see.
If you are open to trying anal then talk with him about it because I think he wants that.
Has he ever eaten your ass?
Do what you are comfortable with!

[ChrisMaster69]

He sounds a bit of an arsehole,

did he miss out the bit ‘what do you like’ ?

He obviously watches too much porn and sounds fairly inexperienced.

Also fingering your arse then your pussy is like ‘welcome to infection’ time.

Sit him down and tell him what you want out of sex, what your limits and boundaries are.

[spartan55]

You let him stick his dick in you but you can't ask him this? You girls are so weird like that.

[pixie215]

sounds like he is testing the waters

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe he likes the smell of shit on his finger.

[MrtoddsWildRide]

Either he wants anal or he thinks you might like it.

[RebeccaBI2000]

He is for sure testing things. He may ask for anal in time

[joeldalton]

Did you like it?

[jasco]

More than likely he did it to turn him on but anal is something most guys would like to

[MarkyMark77]

how did u feel about it? did u like it?

[nawtee_me]

I don't know what was on his mind but getting poop in your vagina is never a good thing...

[Surely]

Did you happen to tell him whether it felt good to you or not?
He might try something a little larger than a finger next time!

[OddBeMe]

We just like to be inside.

[Zygum]

He wanted anal and he was checking that you allow him to do

[clemdenim]

Checking to see if you liked it, did you

[Anonymous]

I love to put fingers in girls anus. I like to finger her asshole when we make out and then pull it out and put it in my mouth to add some more saliva to it before returning it to her juicy ass

[Anonymous]

if you're still breathing to post questions did you really even get choked. like seriously

[Anonymous]

I will assume he did it because like you said... he is sexually experimental

[Anonymous]

He wants anal. He's testing you to see how you'd react, or if you felt pain. And I'd be careful with that butt to pussy fingering bullshit too. Your pussy is liable to catch something from your ass. One hole at a time, or one (penis or finger) dedicated to one hole, the other one dedicated to the other. Never mix them... or do ass to mouth, by sucking his cock after he fucks your ass with it... I don't care WHAT they do in porn!

[Anonymous]

Probably he just likes your butt.

[Anonymous]

He bout to stick his dick in your ass