Why did he have problems staying hard the first time we had sex?

[Anonymous]

Why did he have problems to remain erected the first two times we have had sex. Like while at it had to stop and he wanted a bj so he could hard again. He lasted long enough and also ejaculated but why. He is young and in good shape, no drinking, no smoking. He is circumsized but so is all the guys I have been with and they never had this issue, only one of them.

[oncpl]

I myself experience it once. We were both naked, playing with each others' body. It was her first time. I had sex experience before it. At the time of penetration, my cock limped. Great confusion and embarrassment.
Later, I asked her to suck my cock which was fully erect. In short, after having sex, I tried to explore myself. Perhaps I was confused due to her virginity, thinking if I would be able to satisfy her because of her lack of experience and what if penetration hurt her, etc.
I think your boyfriend might be having some confusion and lack of concentration.

[oncpl]

Thanks for MHG.

[MrOracle]

It's not completely out of the ordinary to be nervous with a new partner, and nervousness can cause performance problems for some guys. It usually goes away as you spend more time together.

[CallMeDave]

Maybe he was nervous at those times. Or maybe he got distracted by something. Or maybe he was tired. Any of those could possibly do it for some guys. It's probably not anything to worry about.

It would be a good idea to avoid complaining about or probably even mentioning it to him though because if he thinks it bothers you that could make him more nervous and then it could happen more.

[Soteris]

Probably a problem of inexperience and confidence. Nothing to worry about really, its very common.

[josephinelcajon]

Nervous thats a good thing it means he really cares about you and what you think of him

[TeeSquare]

Nerves most likely

[DreamCatchcer]

Performance anxiety.

[Gedaria]

Nerves play a lot things on the first time...

[pizzalovershouse]

Maybe tired or sore after awhile an some guys just can't keep going like the Energizer bunny

[BensGlory]

Some guys can get soft due to nervousness or maybe he was nearly ready to cum and had to think of something non sexual to keep going longer but work abit too well and got too soft

[Valnac]

Sounds like you got a virgin.

[Anonymous]

Hard to say. Only he could answer that honestly. So many things can affect an erection. Sometimes it just happens too for no "reason" at all. Just our body doing what it wants to.