Why did he make me orgasm and then he stopped the sex?

Question

I was having sex with my new boyfriend and so far he's been very good in bed with a few exceptions when he came before me and I complained about it but didn't make a big deal out of it. Then next day we had sex and he was waiting for me to come and gave me a good orgasm and shortly after he stopped the sex. Like he didn't care if he was going to come or not. I said to him "what about you" and he said don't worry about me I am tired today, but he didn't look like it. Is he fed up with me already? Does he not find me attractive enough to reach an orgasm? I am actually quite upset by this situation, we only been dating for 2 weeks and this already happened.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I will never understand this. People are having sex with others they barely know... dating for only 2 weeks... and you wonder why he's acting all weird. You have not given him the time to even feel like the sex has any meaning! I'm going to hazard a guess that in life, and in general, you feel empty, like there is a void, unsatisfied and most relationships go through the same motion... rinse and repeat.

It's likely his action was a passive aggressive response to your previous complaint and since you barely know each other, the level of respect, intimacy, understanding, connection, bonding and mutual deservingness of sharing each others bodies simply does not exist... therefore he has no reason to truly care.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

You are out your mind and damn clueless. NO new boyfriend wants to be bitched at. I would be out the door as the flashing neon SELFISH sign lit 🔥 up.
-Point out his Failures immediately, would ya? Boy, you are going to be awesomely supportive woman.
-Here’s your f-in Orgasm, done ✅. You made the thing that guys use to connect an emotionally absent activity. DUDE did not even want to give himself to you.. You may have crushed a sweet guy.
How about read all of Ephesians 5 and start over ⁉️

connemara_crocodile · Answer

Did he last a kong time? Sometimes when I go over an hour I find it difficult to cum. A mix of being tired, with a little bit of numb or pain in my penis... Normal to happen every now and then, but not always

RealMarek · Answer

Depending on how many times you have had sex recently and how old he is he might not have been able to orgasm that time.

exitseven · Answer

It is in his head and it has become weird. He will get over it.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Maybe he tossed-off before he fucked you so he WOULDN'T cum specifically to see to it that you came. When I was with my ex-fiance, I ALWAYS made sure she came before we were done for the night!

MrtoddsWildRide · Answer

Sometimes we just want to make it about you

Playboy2424 · Answer

Dump this asshole asap.

Mark987 · Answer

I have never heard of any guy stopping after he makes a woman orgasm. Unless he was that tired which is hard to believe since he put in the work to make you orgasm.. Very weird