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Why did he thrust in my mouth knowing it was my first time?

I’m very inexperienced when it comes to sex and I’m very shy. But I really love my boyfriend and I decided to give him a blowjob for the first time, and he said he would guide me.
Everything was fine and I was feeling pretty comfortable until he asked if I trusted him, grabbed my hands, interlocked our fingers and started thrusting in my mouth lol
It wasn’t bad and he kept praising me but I just felt…used. I don’t have experience at all and I just wish he would’ve been a little more gentle.
It made my mouth feel kinda sore afterwards and I just felt very embarrassed…
He knows I’m very shy and he knew it was my first time so I wonder why he did that anyways.
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  • I think he was really horny and thrusting is just something he enjoys doing. Thing is when you’re very comfortable with sex you don’t realise that a shy person might find something you enjoy uncomfortable. It’s hard to draw the boundaries. So I don’t think he meant any harm he just wanted to have a good time. Tell him how you feel however. Relationships are all about communication.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Sounds like an inconsiderate jerk who's taking advantage of your inexperience. If he respected you he wouldn't have done it in the first place, but then I guess that's probably down to his age, and he's been watching too much porn.

  • I agree that he was probably just really into the feeling, but he should have asked you if you were ok with that move specifically. Asking if you trust him is not a green light to do whatever he wants.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • He was rough, you mean. Well it was a dick move (pun not intended) but you should tell him you didn't feel good about his being rough.

    If he still does it then its a red flag.

  • He watches too much porn. If your uncomfortable you need to tell him and if he can't handle constructive criticism then you shouldn't be doing anything sexual with him at all.

  • Tell him how it made you feel, any understanding guy would listen and perhaps change his actions during the act.

  • He abused your trust and disrespected you. If he treats you like this now, how will he treat you when he's past the stage of trying to impress you? If you don't dump him and he tries something like that again, bite his dick as hard as you can.

  • Did he cum?

    • What a stupid comment!

  • He is just an idiot. He was worried about his experience not yours.

  • Two reasons. You were making feel very good, and he got really into it. Second, he does not realize or underestimates the effect it has on you. Be very honest and assertive with him about anything you don't like during sex or he will keep doing it.

  • Maybe he thought since you were enjoying it you would liked it more rough too. However he assumed that and didn't ask.

  • I would’ve felt used to, you have to tell him how that made you feel. If you can have sex with him then you should be able to have open and honest conversations about sex with him too.

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