Why did I not feel anything after the kiss?

[smahala1991]

Last night I had my first kiss. We kissed like 3 times with no tounge and it was pretty dry. After those 3 short times it just didn't feel like there was any sexual or emotional chemistry. It kinda felt flat and uneventful. She has had several bfs and partners. But to me i didn't see what all the fuss is about with her. Is something wrong? Does it mean Im gay if her kiss didn't excite me?

[AlienParasite]

It's only one experience.

I remember kissing a guy I found phisically attractive BUT I didn't liked it, there wasn't any emotional connection and felt like he didn't like me at all. That turned me off. However I have had great kisses with my boyfriend.

So, it can be that your expectations were too high. It can also be that you are not attracted to that specific girl. Because she's not that attractive to you, or because you lack of a deeper emotional connection. With another girl could be different.

However it can also be are not attracted to girls. In that case you could be attracted to guys and don't know it or even be asexual.

Those are the possibilities, but only you can tell what's your case.

[cougarclaw87]

You're totally fine. First kisses and losing your virginity blown out of proportion in TV and movies. While some people have these fun, cute stories, there's a lot of people that experienced the exact same thing you did. A kiss that miss the mark and was uneventful. And that's okay! Now you can just try again ;) when you kiss a person and feel the right connection you'll forgot all about this hahaha

[WhiteSteve]

Haha, doesn’t mean you’re gay, bro, that chick just doesn’t do it for you like that. If you have hetero desires on your own time, I’d figure you’re probably straight. Not every gal is a match, y’know?

[Jjpayne]

I can't say exactly... I'd say closeness to her could be more important... Maybe dancing with her could help provide more connection

[DizzyDesii]

You prob turned off by the fact that her lips been elsewhere many many times

[smahala1991]

I kinda compare it to the wrong USB cord or the wrong battery charger

[DizzyDesii]

Well at least u can say youve been kissed. Now just move on

[CreativeMumble]

Just sounds like you weren't into her or you two didn't have the right chemistry.
It doesn't mean you're gay. You would be gay if you're only into dudes.

[EriFrancis1994]

No it doesn't mean you're gay. You don't have sexual chemistry with everyone that you kiss

[ChibiChuck]

Dude it happens to all of us. Can be an off day or maybe you just didn’t like the way she did it.

[Ericalovescats]

Not really if you hyped it up way too much then the real thing doesn't live up to the hype.

[alice55]

Can be that you're asexual. I guess

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Nope, does not mean your gay, maybe your not feeling anything for the girl that can happen

[WowwGirl]

Becaues you kissed like the way you would kiss your grandmother or aunt