Your boyfriend may not have enough experience in real relationships to know what it is like to really love a partner. He may say that he loves you without understanding what that means. I am someone who would never have a threesome of any variety and, in my view, t is inconsistent with loving a partner.
"He didn’t say directly that he wants to do it he asked what i think about it (which means he wants to.)" You are absolutely correct. There is a remote possibility that he said this to test your feelings, but that is an unlikely explanation.
"he says that he’ll have 0 feelings for her" He can say whatever he thinks s most likely to convince you to say "yes," but that does not mean that he will actually have no feelings for her.
What are your thoughts about this? Have you thought of him as LTR material? Do you want to have a threesome? Do you want to run over him with a dump truck?
Well now he confessed that he wants to do it and that the girl will know that i’m his girlfriend and that he loves me
You haven't mentioned a word about what you want. Are you being driven by a fear of losing the relationship?
I feel disgusted from him and i feel that he’s selfish , wants me and wants everything else at the same time
Seriously cause he's greedy and think he can handle you both please you both and want to enact what he saw in a porn movie so he can brag to his friends about having 2 girls at same time but his the fact that he came up short, is just his fantasy to have 2 women, if your not with that just say nah I pass and if you do it behind my back I had on you also but if your with it do it I say but only if your really with it not pressured threatened it bullied by your dude who thinks he's ask that to handle 2 women at same time, if anything you and female number 2 will just ignore him and do you own thing, it's up to you what you do,
Well maybe it’s just like a sex experiment or a kink? Doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t love you but who am I to judge, It’s your relationship so you can decide if he loves you. But yeah, could just be for fun. You can always ask him why
Do you want to be in a relationship with a guy who wants to have sex with multiple women at once?
I have been in (and greatly enjoyed) ffm threesomes several times but with my bi-sexual close female friend*friends with benefits* & her girlfriend - but I eouldn"t want to do that with a girl I was in a loving romantic (and committed) relationship with - unless it was her idea/desire - because the bottom line is I think it'd be so unfair to cajole her into a sexual session where she'd be seeing me being sexual with another girl because that'd be an image she may be very uncomfortable with and could never erase from her mind
*wouldn't want to..
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes, he wants a threesome. But there is a difference between love and sexual attraction. It is possible his fetish is having a threesome and he wants to try it. it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. If he does not love you then he would've gone behind your back and cheated on you. The fact that he is asking you shows that he cares about you and wants to see if you would agree. If you say no and he did not want a threesome anymore then he loves you. But obviously, you got to be a little bit cunning and see if he does anything unusual. Just in case.
He's probably just curious. He most likely watched a threesome porn and thought "huh, that's hot". Most straight guys find it sexy when two girls get intimate. For him, it would be even hotter if his own girlfriend (you) were getting hot n' heavy with another girl while he joins in on the fun. If he truly loves you, he wouldn't harass you about it anymore or try to pressure you into having one. Don't feel like you have to do anything you're uncomfortable with; threesomes aren't for everyone.
It would have been better if he would have left out the no feelings part. That's probably causing more conflict than being asked to consider an open or poly relationship. "Hey, she's going to be a breathing sex doll I seduced. You're different though!"
That would make me think a whole lot about who I'm with...
Get a new boyfriend. He is a selfish asshole who doesn't care about your feelings or respect you. It doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you. Threesomes are not nearly what they are cracked up to be. Trust me on this.
He does not love you, but that's because he is driven by the needs of the ego, rather than the true self. He asked you that question because his ego desires more than just you.
He wouldn't have asked her in the first place if he didn't love her. If he was really driven by his ego, he would've just cheated instead.
This is his way of cheating. He can pretend as if it's a threesome. But he can focus his attention of the other girl.
@7771999 I think you're assuming the worst. Dude is probably jus curious, y'know, like most dudes are.
Maybe that's a fantasy he has. It's actually quite common. If you don't want to do it speak to him and tell him, ask him how he'd feel if you wanted a 3some with him and another guy
He wants to have a threesome. That doesn't mean he doesn't love you.
Exactly
It means he's considering going vegan. Everybody knows that.
He wants to try something different. Maybe you will like this.
It's because he spends entirely too much time jerking off to porn. You'll see.
Oh, and don't do it, it will NEVER be even close to what you thought or hoped it would be.
And it means he sees you as a sex object. A piece of meat, a warm place to put it. No regular man that cherishes his woman would want to share her. PERIOD.
He actually said that no one else is touching me but him
Well try it, then come back and tell us how it went. Your guy is a porn addict, and thinks he can re-enact something he saw on a vid. Next he'll want butt-sex, and to cum all over your face. Or gag you with his dick 'till you throw up. You'll see.
Don't do it if you don't want to/not comfortable with it.
If he complains, ask him if he would share you with another guy.
Some guys fantasize to have threesome (ffm), and if they actually do, it doesn't mean lack of love with you. However, if same third partner is always party to threesome, then you may have doubts.
He probably wants to shag the other girl really bad. Go with your gut feeling on this.
Tell him only if you do a MFM threesome first 😊
Because he wants a threesome
It's dangerous territory.
lol it's just a threeway and all these people are so PRUDISH about it.
There is NOTHING wrong with getting a threeway, it doesn't mean he loves you less.
He still loves you he just wants a different kind of sex on occasion.
He keeps saying that it’s a one time thing and that he wants me there because he doesn’t want to cheat
He wants a change
So he can fuck someone else with your approval and no he doesn’t love you
Wtf is wrong with him?
On the other hand he gets extremely jealous and doesn’t want me to talk to any guy
Damn. You need to sit down with him. He's being insanely weird
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