This is not a you problem, your partner is likely to be addicted to porn, this is extremely common at some point for men ME INCLUDED.
Porn is like a drug, the more you see the more you want and the deep and darker it gets as more and more hardcore scenes are viewed.
Ignore comments about you being poor in bed, your probably not and the fact your initiating sex is hot within itself. The fact is you can’t complete with what he’s viewing, likely to be gangbangs 1 girl 6 men.
If he doesn’t stop soon he will ruin he own sex life completely as this is not right, refusing the real thing can’t be right.
When he least expects it be waiting for him on your knees, suck him off for a bit then when your ready get up and bend over for him and demand he to fuck you, while he starts to do this tell him he’s not to cum inside you because you want to taste him in your mouth again, when you start sucking him of again tell him you can taste both of your love juices and ask him if he wants his cum down your throat or on your face.
When he’s done get him to kiss between your thighs and lick your Pussy, then get your phone out and watch porn that you enjoy.
Ask him if he enjoyed the sex when he’s caught his breath and mention you want more of this. If this idiot continues to reject your advances after this seriously consider dumping him.
Let me know how you get on ✌️
No anxiety when one masturbates (other than the risk of getting caught if that is an issue in the relationship). Often anxiety is a big part of what comes from partner sex: anxiety about how I smell, how my body will perform, will my body perform, does my partner like me, my body, how my body reacts etc. For many people, unfortunately, relationship sex is filled with so much anxiety that it is not enjoyable
A person is tired and masturbation doesn't require the same level of effort, both mentally and physically to perform
It is not painful. For both men and women, relationship sex can be physically painful and the inability to resolve the pain or effectively discuss it with their partner leads to the desiring relationship sex less or avoiding it
A person is bored
A person is bored with their relationship and wants to play out a fantasy in their head
A person is stressed
Because they like it
They don't have to worry about getting rejected by their partner
Their partner is sick, has their period or just doesn't want it when the partner does
They want to do it quick or don't have the time required for relationship sex
Their partner is traveling or away from their partner
It's convenient, like in the shower in the morning or evening
It is their best attempt to remain faithful to the marriage because they are really unhappy and don't have anyway to resolve marital conflict outside the bedroom
They do not desire the kind of sex they will have with their partner
It's fun
They want to indulge in a fantasy that they are: too afraid, embarrassed or fear rejection from their partner to share with them
They just want an orgasm and they know how best to get there in the fastest way possible
To learn more about their own body and what they like and how to reach orgasm
It probably won't be the last either as he is addicted to porn and normal sex does not do it for him anymore. The bummer is that it will also cheat his partner out of sex in this instance. And for some reason people think that porn is so great when it can be so detrimental to a relationship. One popular porn site took a survey of their users and found out that users viewed over 500,000 hours of porn in a year. That is like 57 years of porn if you watch it 24 hrs a day and 365 days a year.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!There are several potential reasons, few of which are mutually exclusive- fatigue, not having to worry about the other person's satisfaction, wanting to see or try something new that might backfire horribly (sure, you CAN have your partner help with that, but people generally don't like to look bad in front of their partners), feeling horny specifically for some act or scene (or whatever) that you're not into or that he's embarrassed to tell you about, mental stress, just wanting to flush the hormones to clear his brain without making a production out of it (you can have a partner help with this, too, but you usually don't WANT to until you've gotten especially close), being busy and needing to be quick while too horny to concentrate... the list goes on.
The big thing is this: is it interfering with your sex life? If it's just an odd instance out that happens every so often, you're probably okay. If it's frequent, or your needs aren't being met, that's different.
I don't get it. I've watched porn while getting a hand job/bj from a girlfriend. Touch from a woman is better than self touch.
Maybe he wanted to watch some kink that he's rather not share.
Sometimes a guy just wants some solo pleasure without worrying about how to please a partner. I find it weird that he did not even want you to give him a handjob.. guys love them! As you know all younger guys jerk off frequently but most will never admit it. How often are you two having sex?
If you really want to know ask your boyfriend & when he was in the other room humping his fist you should of joined the party.
Sometimes a person just wants some alone time with their body. Why not ask him if you can watch.
Its what he's used to. He needs what porn provides to get himself off. Maybe he has a certain fantasy he wanted to experience that specific day that he can only get by watching porn.
Thank you for your input. I guess I just feel insecure like I’m not good enough for him sexually? He did come back later because he changed his mind saying it felt weird when I was there but it still makes me feel bad.
Dont feel bad about him watching porn every so often. Its not that he doesn't find you attractive he just wants something different sometimes. Its only an issue if he has an obsession with porn and takes it over being with you every time. Women use sex toys not because their partner isn't enough but it gives you a different sensation so its kinda similar. Maybe try watching porn together sometime if your comfortable with it.
You must have a very close relationship if he felt like telling you that. So kudos for that. In other news... WTF... ain't nothing like the real thing.
This kind of question is a common one on here. Try to get him to explain what he enjoys in the porn he watches. Maybe you can do whatever it is for him instead, no questions asked. Porn could simply be an escape for him, a way to have a life separate from the relationship, or be a supplement to his sex life. Of course, he could be a porn addict in which case he may benefit from counselling.
They don't? I prefer sex over anything. If i got a sexy ass lady i date then i want that every time in some way or form. Maybe even masterbation together, anything.
Probably should ask what kind of porn it is, could be something you don't do today. Then again it could be just different camera angles that get people off.
Read "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan
you'll fully understand the reason.
Because he's addicted to porn.
Yeah that is very odd. If I had a choice between a girl or my hand I always pick the girl. The only reason I could think he might think your or him are bad at sex.
Not a good sigh.
Sometimes I am just not in the mood for sex/ or help from girlfriend. Maybe I just wanna flap to porn and enjoy my own hand at its own pace. Its my dick so why not
He didn't want to have sex with you at that time. Only he knows why
It is his choice,
Ask your boyfriend
I don't know what is wrong with him
I enjoy it too but maybe a blowjob will slow him down
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