Why did my girlfriend let her old boyfriend finish inside her but will not let me?

We have been dating for three months and she still will not have me finish inside her. She let her old boyfriend do it every time. Is there logic to this? Sex is best for me bare. I am about to tell her if she does not think our relationship is serious I will need to move on.
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  • maybe he pressured her to
    maybe they were dating a long time
    maybe they had an accident and she is afraid of accidental pregnancy
    maybe she doesn't like it and the way it feels
    maybe she is no longer on birth control
    ask her. 3 months is not that long
    if a guy gave me that ultimatum, especially when we are only 3 months into dating, i dont want him

  • My boyfriend expects it so its ok with me. Maybe she is waiting to make sure it is serious. I don't know

    • That is what I thought for a while

Most Helpful Guys

  • I take it she's on reliable birth control? If she's stopped taking the pill, for instance, that'd explain it. Instead of an ultimatum, a conversation might be more productive.

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  • Because she's a whore. Break up with her.

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  • Don't guess, just ask her. If you can't have this type of conversation then is she really a girlfriend, or just some girl you're f'ing. Sounds like she doesn't trust you. Ask her and yourself why.

  • That begs an interesting question. How exactly do you know that the her ex was a cream pie specialist?
    If she told you that and then proceeded to cock block you from doing the same then clearly there's a massive issue here.
    Now if you found out on your own then maybe she decided after breaking up with him that she will no longer risk pregnancy.
    Either way this is a question for her and not for GAG. Just make sure you're calm and not winny when you ask her.

    • She told me so I thought I would get to since bare is so better

    • Well if you're having sex on the regular and things are going great then yeah definitely bring it up. But if you're still in early stages and you're not yet tuned in to eachothers preferences and stuff then maybe you should give her some times. She doesn't really "owe" you anything after all.

  • I feel like we need more context here.

  • You need to stop asking that and other questions like that. Even if you care about that, and you shouldn't, don't show it.

  • Well. She may have wanted a child then and does not now. She could be worried about things. She could just not want it like that. I mean it is her decision so if she refuses but it is something you need then I think you need to talk about it.

  • Move on. It is not right to be treated like that.

  • I'm pretty sure they were dating longer before she let him cum inside her the first time.

  • get a new girlfriend bud

  • In my experience, it has a lot to do with how I feel about a guy. If I’m not sure about the relationship, I tend to be more careful. If I’m in love, I want every bit of him
    inside me. Without knowing any other details, I’d say she was more into the ex.

  • Maybe she's learn from past mistakes...

  • Perhaps she has matured and realized that is how a woman gets pregnant.

  • She doesn't trust you.

  • doesn't want to get pregnant and when my boyfriend cums in me it makes my pussy stink

  • she doesn't want you