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I was talking to this girl on snapchat for 2 weeks. We have a lot in common. She gave me her number without me asking for it. We are both switch. We have nearly identical fetishes definitely fetish compatible. We talked vividly about what type of sex we like and only one thing out of 10 or so was off the table. She sent me nude pics and videos without me asking. And we had a date planned for tomorrow over text and I go to call her to confirm and I get ghosted. I tried texting once after that also no response.
Has this ever happened to anybody else? I am so confused on what I did wrong. We were laughing at each other's jokes this afternoon. Then I call her around 8 and it's like I don't exist.
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1 1YOu did not act.
How did I not act? We had a date planned for today already. I called her to confirm it and she never responded. The date was planned 5 days ago and we spoke everyday after and she sent nudes since then. It just feels very random. Literally 2 days ago she was telling me she is about to get her nipples pierced, asking my opinion which I was in favor of. And then she was joking around with me hrs before she ghosted me yesterday.
Alright. My bad. Sorry. “Can’t do nothing with psycho.” Maybe it’s your guardian Angel looking out for you. This one is not with it ‼️
Yea she ain't making any sense. To top it off this date for today was a reschedule of my first attempt to get her out on the 26th. She told me the next time she would be free and then did all that shit during the reschedule just to ghost me again today. It probably wouldn't have worked out but it sucks still. We liked all the same sports, both played video games, had like 10 plus kinks in common, were generally getting along, and she looks good naked. It's gonna be hard to find a girl similar but I'm looking already.
It’s taking me longer than it should have to realize this: Women never make any sense…. But when they go off the rails repeatedly then it’s good to let them do that alone. I try avoid train wrecks 😎
I hear you I just wish she ghosted me last week before talking to me all that extra time, and teasing me with nudes. She got me super hyped for nothing now.
Yep, she was having a good time messing with your mind... leave her in 2022...
Who knows man. She could be all talk no walk and is trying to backpedal, feels like all you two talk about is sex and realized so does want that, have another woman in the picture that you don’t know about but ultimately she chose, and the list goes on. But ghosting is never the answer, she could’ve just told you.
I found her on a fetish dating site. And then started talking to her on snap. Kinks were the first thing we talked about. She initially even called me vanilla until I opened up more. It went good from there though. We snapped everyday. Talked sports, joked around, had a date scheduled. She sent me nudes and gave me her number without me asking for either. I never got to find out if she wanted friends with benefits or a relationship. I was gonna ask her on the date today. She actually ghosted me last night and I just ain't sleep. The date was supposed to be tonight. All I can think is maybe she just wanted friends with benefits and thought I only wanted a serious relationship. But honestly I would have took either. She seemed perfect for me and I'm legit bummed.
Gotcha. Well in any case I’m sorry to hear about that, getting ghosted sucks especially if you’re really into the person. The most I can suggest with her is to just wait it out. Maybe she got caught up with some other things and hasn’t had a chance to get back to you yet. But should you not hear from her then don’t get too bummed, she won’t be the first or last woman who seems perfect for you. What I would suggest though going forward is that when using a dating app, try not to gain any feelings or have expectations until they give you a real reason to do so. Everyone is on the app or site trying to find their person, and sometimes you won’t be that man, even if you feel like she could be that woman. You never know what the prospects look like on her end, so it’s better to keep your feelings in check until you can mutually decide to only focus on one another. Otherwise you will keep finding yourself in this place.
Thank you for the advice, and the kind words.
No worries!