Why did the guy spank me after my first kiss? Was he horny? Could I be that he had an erection?

He wanted to kiss from a long time but we weren't in the same city, I had my first kiss with him. We made out for 30 seconds and after that he spanked my butt. Tbh I didn't like what he did.
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  • he was just attracted to you and felt like doing it; he felt free with you. But you should tell him that just cause you kissed him, doesn't mean its ok for him to spank you, that you are not on that level yet. It was also very disrespectful of him, thats like fboy behavior tbh.

    • I told him this. He did apologize but I don't know if he seriously likes me or not. i am questioning myself should I move on or just leave it since he apologized.

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  • For a first kiss for him to spank you was kinda weird. Did he have a boner? What is your current status with him? He needs to chill and enjoy getting to know you first.

    • We like each other and exchange sweet messages. It's been about 9 months. I don't know if had a bone in not.

  • He may have seen it in porn and assumed all girls like it. Just tell him you don't like it and not to do it again.

    • I told him I didn't like his behavior he apologized and said I guess we are this much of good friends, that I can do that but that use of friend word made me angry.

    • I'm not sure why he would have said that. He may have been angry you didn't like him spanking your butt.

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  • Nah he’s just an arsehole and does not understand consent.
    Best just move on.

    • Tbh I think so, because I felt really hurt it was really disrespectful.

    • Put it down to a lesson learned, always set boundaries and be firm if crossed

    • Yeah I did that but the only regret is that I couldn't confront him when he did that. I told him about that a bit later.