Why did this guy feel the desire to insult me after having sex with me?

[Anonymous]

I hooked up with this guy from my college, and once we had sex, I assumed I would never hear from him again.

For whatever reason, he decided to text me two years after graduating from college, saying that he was in the area and he'd, "pay to have sex with me", because I had a "tight pussy" and that I could, "always list myself on Craigslist... someone would pay to have sex with me". WTF?

I was a virgin when I started college and actually look pretty conservative... why would this guy come out of the blue and contact me when I had sex with him once?

[pony1800]

He sounds like an asshole. Don't let him bother you, just block him. Some guys think it's ok to insult a woman like this. He has no respect for you or probably any woman. Just be glad you didn't keep dating him.

[Asker]

Yeah, it’s weird. I seriously never thought I’d see the guy again and then he just texted me when he was in my City. The crazy thing is that I looke dat his Instagram and he has a girlfriend!!! What the hell?

[Katools]

He wanted to cheat on his girlfriend with you. And the best way to do it, is with no strings attached sex with you. Maybe he was trying to find out, in a totally screwed up way whether you would have been agreeable to have his penis inside you, just for fun.

[pony1800]

Yikes!!! WTF...

[AustinMan]

Because he's a jerk. See him and when you go down on him, give him a good, hard bite.

[itsmyownname]

Please don't pay too much attention to his stupid words. He's probably lonely and frustrated maybe drunk at the time he texted you. Some people just can't let go.

[Daniela1982]

Because once you got a name as being easy it gets around. He wants 2nds is all, and 3rds, the 4ths and on infinitum.

[livingthelife19]

Maybe he misses you or liked the sex. Might want to hook up with you

[dreamstar72]

Text him back and say, "Sorry you was to small and lousy in bed. So maybe you should advertise on Craiglist 'looking for someone who likes it small, quick, and unsatisfying'

[dancing_tiger711]

Because he’s desperate and needy and very insecure

[COMMODOREII]

Ouch. Talk about an insult. Damn.

[Asker]

Yeah, why would he say something rude to me? I had sex with him once after he pursued me, I never found him to be bright/charming/funny, and I honestly don't think the guy has much going for him...

[COMMODOREII]

Now that is really bad. 😂😂 what a jerk.

[Asker]

Seriously, from the perspective of a man, why would a man insult me like that? I'm really just a small, white woman who dresses in a pretty normal way and I'm not an asshole myself! I was never even loose in college.

[COMMODOREII]

I can't answer that. I have never insulted a woman like that plus any of my friends or lovers are treated with utmost respect. I would never divulge what we did or how they are sexually with me. That is an intimate thing that i keep to myself. I don't kiss and tell. 😉 i would imagine he thinks its a compliment but he has no idea how to talk to women or doesn't think of women as his equal.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Lies.

[nailu]

He wants to do it again. I hope you didn’t do it

[Asker]

No. I barely found him to be attractive the first time, and now's he gained weight and went from being above average looking to looking like a blob

[Anonymous]

He Wants More Pussy From You?