Why did this guy I'm dating for 2 months want to have anal sex?

I like the guy and want him to stay around so I did it and it wasn't all bad, but does that mean he gonna want to do anal like every time from now on? I ask my friend and she said lots of people do it and its nothing out of the ordinary, but like how do I know if he liked it?
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  • He wanted to have anal sex with you because the idea turns him on. That doesn't mean he's going to want it every time though. I think it's a safe bet that he enjoyed it though.

    Anal sex is very common today but there is still a lot of misinformation out there about it. Most people don't know how to prepare for it and do it properly to make it enjoyable for her. And when I say prepare, I'm talking about well in advance (weeks and more).

    There is also a misperception that women don't get any pleasure out of it. That is definitely not true for many women. My ex, who was the one who I had anal sex with the first time, was into anal sex and anal play and she truly enjoyed it. She wanted it as often as I was willing and she definitely had more and better orgasms during anal. A woman can get a lot of pleasure from anal sex if she is prepared and it is done properly.

    • Yeah i talked with a few more friends and they all said they've done anal sex i didn't know it was this common

    • Yup, very common. If this guys does want to continue doing it, and you are willing (important!), I'd suggest Googling information about how to train your ass. Lots of good info out there and it will help a lot. You'll get more enjoyment out if it and will likely enjoy the process too, especially if you masturbate and have orgasms during the training process. That will associate the sensations with pleasure in your brain and make orgasming during anal sex easier and better.

  • So 'not all bad' means 'not great'? Sorry to hear that. Been there and had some issues with rough women, followed by some great times with gentle, patient women who know what they're doing. Have a read here.
    www.cosmopolitan.com/.../
    I particularly like the bit that says 'go solo' first. One of the big booboos the not so great ladies made was not taking the time to dilate the anus. It's a good tip if you ever get to ream his butt. Turnabout is fair play.

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  • Anal has become pretty normal n almost everyone is getting into it honey
    N its not bad though u will love it

    • True I did like it it was comfortingly in a way

    • Hehe great😊😊

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  • Did he have an orgasm? If so then he liked it. Did you use tons of lube? It helps. I prefer the front door any day. If it is not uncomfortable or you don't like it just ell him. How is the sex with him otherwise?

    • It's great except i always gotta fix up my hair cause he likes pulling it during lol. And i did like the anal and we did use lube for me and he did cum i just hope it means it was good for him

    • Sounds like fun. do you ever go for round 2 or 3 with him?

  • If you did it because you want him to stay around, that's the wrong reason.

    • I should want him to leave?

    • No, but if the thought of anal makes you uncomfortable then you shouldn't do it. If he doesn't want to be with you because you refuse to do something you're uncomfortable or not OK with, then he might not be right for you. Let me ask you. If *he* refused to do something and he explained he's not comfortable doing it, would you leave him?

    • Depends what it was I guess

  • It might be just something he likes occasionally. Maybe you will enjoy it more if you got used to it.

    • I think i could get used to it with him

    • there you go then

  • Because he's a bit of a perv? Maybe he's gay.

    • Why would he be gay?

    • He likes fucking assholes, doesn't he? Gay guys love stabbing shit! Why would a straight guy CHOOSE to fuck someone's asshole when there's a PERFECTLY GOOD pussy staring him in the face?

    • But I'm a woman... Do you not kiss women because men also have lips so that makes it gay? Like I dont get it?

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  • Because he enjoys anal and wants to experience anal with you. Do you have any reason to believe it might have some deeper meaning?

    • Not really i guess

    • Sometimes a throbbing hard cock up your butt is just that ;)

  • Trust that he liked it for sure. If it's not something you want to do all the time though then make sure he knows that's not all you want. Let him know it will happen again when he's really nice to you lol.

  • I'm sure he liked it a lot :)

    • I hope so._.

    • Don't worry he did :)

  • If he asks to do it again he liked it.

    • Yeah i am just self conscious i guess

  • If you are mature enough to have sex, you are mature enough to discuss his expectations. Ask him.

    • But how

    • Use your words: “Do you expect to have anal sex with me each time?”

    • But what if he not but because I ask him that then he change his mind and want it each time?

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  • Ask him

    • But I don't know its like embarrassing like 'hey how did your dick feel in my ass?'

    • Grow the fuck up and ask him

    • That would turn me on for you to ask that

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  • Guys like to go where no one has gone before and butt is tighter

    • Yeah i am just self conscious

  • isn't it normal for you?

    • No i've only done it a handful of times

    • Ok but you did it. Dont u like anal sex?

    • It felt good but it is also weird

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  • if he liked it, he will ask again

  • Do you have any sex with him in 2 months?

    • Yeah after like a month

    • That's why his asking for that...

    • What you mean?

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  • Is good to give it to him, just to keep him. lol

    • Thanks I think so

  • No not all the time but ya never know maybe if u give it or ask for it once in awhile without him asking he might stop asking it

    • But I think I liked it

  • Doesn’t want kids I guess and it’s also tighter

    • So he might think I am too loose 😥?

    • No they just like it tight but I don’t think he is thinking you’re too loose, Most guys prefer vagina anyway like me

  • Cause guys want that booty hole! He'll probably try to hit you up soon again

    • Maybe so