Why didn't he cum?

I had sex with this guy for the first time and he didn't cum. He said it was really good but it wasn't happening for some reason. Has this ever happened to you before and why/what was the solution? Was it me?
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  • Yes it happend to me 2 times 2 different people. One it was when I had lost my virginity card. And I had a condom that also can make a person drag to cum. Second time as fast or hard as I was going i wasn't feeling it anymore plus I was high and I have been able to cum while high its amazing by the way. But that time it was different. It has to do with the person also. Not everyone is going to have fun body parts. Other may have something you really just like about it that just takes you away and forget you can't cum

  • It could be anything, stress, nervousness, medication. I wouldn't worry about it, it's really common.

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  • It's not you. Don't worry about it. Sometimes it takes a while or he doesn't want to deal with it. Just relax and be ready when he is.

  • Yes of course

  • BECAUSE HE WAS FAKING IT!..

  • He didn't want to, is all. Don't worry about it at all; means he was more interested in pleasing you. How was it for you?

    • And don't listen to the guys who are saying something about "he was nervous" or stressed or whatever... no. That has literally nothing to do with it. They're wrong.

  • It's not you! It could be he became numb after a while and a guy can't cum then, but he can keep going to please you. That's the point anyway, pleasing the woman is the only important thing to the guy. It doesn't matter if he cums or not. It matters that you were satisfied. Believe me, he had a GREAT time trying! Don't worry! Really.

  • It takes stamina and you just have to power through it

  • It could be nervousness, stress, frequent aggressive masturbation. It could even be you TBH.

  • Yeah. It takes me 40 to 50 minutes and the hooker just couldn't make me do it.

  • Perhaps he was nervous. Wouldn’t worry about it

  • Definitely happened to me before. I just COULDNT get up and I don't know why. I pleasured her other ways and I still enjoyed it