Why didn't you and your partner get HIV and STD tested before starting to have sex? (This question isfor those who didn't get tested before doing)?

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Superb Opinion

  • If you have any STDs before becoming sexually active, you'd know. So since we were both virgins and knew we didn't have any, there was no point. If I ever date someone else, I wouldn't need the test, because my current girlfriend would have been my only other sexual partner and she's clean.

    • Not necessarily... asymptomatic... why do you think everyone will know? Also... if it is early infection, stages haven't set on and you happen ti have sex then, what about that?

    • I'm talking about if you were born with them. The symptoms would appear sometime before you have sex unless you are sexually active before 15. They probably would earlier too, but definitely by age 15, if you have any that you inherited.

    • Ah ok

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Most Helpful Girls

  • The first guy and i were just dumb. I was 15 and so lucky that he was clean especially since he kept sneaking off the condom. Because that mf cheated on me with half the neighborhood (yet he used condoms with them). With the second guy i made sure we got tested before. There have been others in which we got tested just in case sex happened but i have willpower so it was basically a test for nothing because the relationship didn't last the length i need it to to lie down with someone

  • Both of us were virgins, so the chances of one of us having an STD were negligible.

Most Helpful Guy

  • It was kind of spontaneous for me with my wife. I asked her if she was okay when I was going there and she said she trusts me. Then I was too in the moment to stop and think about that. I'm assuming you're asking about raw sex.

    • In my case, I was okay with impregnating every woman I was with. I figure you're never ready for kids. You become ready after. But in that sense, I was ready for kids with every woman I was with. In a way, I wanted kids with all of them.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Young and stupid and it was 1988.

  • Mostly because neither of us slept around before we met!

  • We trusted each other.

    • It has nothing ti do with trust lol. A person may not know they have it until a too long time after.

    • That is a good point, but both of us had been in long term relationships prior.

    • Okay, I understand

  • The first one well I was a virgin and she'd been tested after her last relationship

    The second well I guess trust and well she blew me before we actually got together

  • We still get tested every few months.

  • I don't plan to because I'm saving myself for marriage

    • Peopel can get infected in starve ways though... not only sexual... like rare though... peopel don't sit on public toilets I guess

    • Yes, and I think you have symptoms

    • ? You think I have symptoms? Which symptoms 😂

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  • Because my wife and I were virgins. 🙂👍

  • Did you get tested?

    • That's not the question 👊 and no

  • I get tested for STD’s every month

    • Yourself or your partner?

  • Traditionally you don't get tested. Waste of time and money. Plus I only date women who are not promiscuous.

  • We are each others only sexual partners

  • My wife has a number of toys. We use them together, she's also used them in her own. We go with both.

  • She was a virgin, I'd been without sex for 2 years and always used condoms before that

  • stupid question

  • The first time we had sex when we were 15 we were both virgins

  • Didn’t have many partners before them or me and no issues there and did use protection first, no one has tested before having sex but also had no long history of partners, I did test a few years just to see and didn’t have anything, I’ve only been with 6 women in my life so far