Why do a lot of guys don't know how to give good oral on a girl?

Out of all the guys I've been with, why is it that none of them seem to know how to do oral. All thy do is lick and move their tongue. It ends up tickling me rather than making me really enjoy it. They dont even bother to find the clitoris, they just flick their tongue around, stay there for a few seconds and come back up. um hello!! I got nothing out of that! It frustrates me because I give good head and they can't even match up. I have never cum during cunnilingus.
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  • They need to see some vids. But maybe they don't have much interest in eating it? If a gal has a big clit I will suck it like a queer sucks a dick. Even if she does not have a big clit I will suck her labias and eat her until I get a neck cramp. If I can't bring her to climax I will assist her in her masturbation by pleasuring her all over from toe sucking to caressing, suckling, whatever she wants.

    Do you keep it clean? Does it smell OK? if it is in decent shape, they should spend a min of 15 to 20 minutes pleasuring you and some time on your bottom as well rimming you. I guess it just depends on how crazy you are with women?

    Go lesbi if you like. Some of the lesbians eat pussy like a maniac. If you really want pleasure have a lesbi eat you and another lesbi or guy suckle and caress you nipples and kiss and stroke you. If you can't climax with that, there are some problems. Good luck... really I wish I could work on you darling!!

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  • Well we don't have a pussy so sometimes were not good at it first but as u get older and the guys get older it wull get better they just need practice also u can help them by telling them or guide them to what feels good. I at my age i am pretty not ti brag but all the girls i been with say i the best but that because when. i was 16 my next door neighbor who was divorced 30 year old taught how to eat pussy and we had sex for about two years until i moved but like i said the guys need practice and if your really desperate for your pussy to be eatin. out good get a older guy or a girl.

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  • Wow, i feel sorry for you! Personally I love doing it, it's best when she can't keep still from the intense pleasure. Mmmm yummy

    But I hear there are guys that just don't like doing it, those guys will never get the job done.

  • If only you knew me lol. Not to brag but I've never disappointed. I had a few good teachers ;) keep looking! :)

  • Some don't care, some don't know, some are doing what other girls liked which might be different from you.

  • All guys are not natural born lovers. You need to let them know what feels good and what does not. You should be getting some fantastic orgasms from the oral you receive. Gently coach them and let them know when they are doing it right and let them know that they need to stay down there until you orgasm.

  • your dating the wrong guys then :P

  • Tell the how to do it! communicate tell them less tongue, more clit, Tell them to act as if they were making out with you, but do that down there! I don't know my ex gave me a bunch of directions and i am very thankful for it! best of luck!

  • I've had some good teachers in my life..;);)

  • If you want a man to know how to handle your vagina then it's your job to tell him how. Unless he is unwilling to learn or reciprocate then it's 100% on you.

  • A male does not have a vagina, so he has no idea what makes one feel good. (Also different girls like different actions, write alphabet with tongue around clit, lick from ass to clit, add finger action) Be glad he is willing to try and let him know what feels good and what doesn't. the better you teach him thee better your orgasm.

    Think of this, did you give the best blow jobs the first few times you tried?

  • He had a bad teacher. All I know about women I've learned from them.

  • Tell him how you like it and guide him... I personally love giving oral for hours

  • My guy does!

  • Why don't you open your mouth and tell the guy what you want?