Why do a lot of guys want sex everyday?

My boyfriend wants sex everyday. Some days I just cannot do it.

Why do a lot of guys want sex everyday?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I notice a few brave women did chime in here, but mostly men. That should tell all of us ladies something: It's really, really, really important to men. As more than one guy pointed out here, for men, it isn't a want; it's a NEED. So my advise to any woman who is in a serious relationship: Sex does not always have to be a marathon session, although that is nice and, of course, there will be some days when it gets skipped -- but only for a really good reason, like you're sick. Not having enough time is not an excuse. If you think you just don't have time, then make time, ladies. Learn the art of the quickie and wake up a littler earlier in the morning so you can give him 15 minutes. That's really all it takes to ensure your guy steps out the door a happy man each morning. Why wouldn't you want that for him? There's nothing better than a man who can't wait to get home to you bc he KNOWS how much you love him and, for him, home really is where the heart is!

  • Sex is fun I always have time for sex with my boyfriend lol

    • When did you get a boyfriend lol?

    • @JHAYES317 I don't have one, I just mean when I have one I always have time for that lol

Most Helpful Guys

  • Short answer: Biology

    Longer answer. among lots and lots of other factors, the more cum a man has built up in his balls the more sex is going to be on his mind. I mean, obviously since cumming is the only way to get rid of the cum. So the more cum that builds up the more we want to fuck. and cum builds up REALLY fast. Like, at least 300 million sperm per day. So that in and of itself is enough to make us actually NEED to fuck or at least cum on as close to a daily basis as possible.

    Add on top of that the high testosterone and psychological predisposition to want sex all the time that evolution left us with and yeah, men don't want to have sex every day. we want to have sex every 4 hours or so. Your boyfriend is taking it easy on you if he only tries to get it once a day.

    Cut him some slack.

  • It's in our nature.

    Welp, kudos to you for being willing to help him out as much as you can. Just make sure that if it starts always feeling like a chore you cut it back a little so it doesn't hurt your relationship.

    • Thanks for the MHO!

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  • It's scientifically proven that men's brain contains more hormones related to sex and horniness and hence why we often think about sex and wants to do it. Also reason why many turn to porn so they can release themselves.

    If you don't want it everyday, just be open about it, and let him muscle up his arms.

  • For the same reason some women do

    It's fun and it feels awesome

  • When you say you can't do it every day, do you mean you don't have the desire to have sex every day, or you just don't have the time or can't handle it physically?

    I think a lot of guys (if not most) want it every day because men naturally have a high sex drive due to testosterone levels.

  • A lot of people have high sex drives and want sex daily, often numerous times daily. Then you have those who lower levels, to those with minimal.
    this is why it’s important to respect each other and not just expect sex as a given 24/7.

    equally it’s also important to ensure you are both sexually compatible.

  • Well men tend to be more sexual than women, especially when the man is at young age.

  • I guess we are built to need sexual release every day!

  • Looks like you guys are young so it's not an issue. You can manage and see if he is not watching porn movies etc in bulk quantity which make may make him more horney.

  • I don't understand people who didn't. If he does and you don't, think carefully whether you are compatible.

  • Mother Nature made men for sex. A man can get erect anytime, on a moment's notice, and is easily excited. Some people have mentioned testosterone, which is also a contributor to a man wanting sex.

  • Because sex is great

  • Because girls made us by hiding their estrus from us. If we knew when you were ovulating we would have evolved to only needing 2 or three times a month when we could knock you up.

    • Actually, one reason women have some difficulty with men is bc you all can smell our estrus, even though it is so subtle neither the man or woman is usually aware of it. When I get men following me around in the grocery store, I know I'm there lol

    • @Caroline91 That is an interesting observation. There is an academic paper which looked at stripper tips correlated with their cycle and found there was a very distinct peak in tips at ovulation. But it couldn't control for girls being a little flirtier around ovulation. We know women wear more revealing clothing to clubs at ovulation from other research. Your experience does seem to be the best evidence! Thanks. As our sperm cells are nurtured in your fallopian tubes and are viable for 5 days, guys do need to reload their girl at least twice weekly. Every day is better, cause fresher is better. The once a day men would have left more progeny and crowed the once a week guys out.

    • So, kind of fascinating to look at it from a more scientific view isn't it,,,

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  • Hormones

  • My wife wants oral every day, I’d be happy with sex a couple times a week I usually have to jackoff instead.

  • Because those are the men you're interacting with everyday 🤷🏻

  • Used to when i was a teenager and early 20's, now i don't...
    I doubt that i can even have it every day in my age 😄

  • Biology

  • in my younger days, it was 3 or 4 times a day and then agin same at night

  • It feels amazing

  • We like it and good stress relief and releases endorphins

  • Why not? Would you rather he masturbate to porn everyday, even when you’re present and available? Or rather let all that cum and hormones build up so he gets distracted, horny, and directs his attention elsewhere? Honestly, everyday doesn’t sound bad, it sounds perfect. At your age I typically fucked three times a day.

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