Why do all men want a big penis when a lot of woman can't handle anything that's too big?

okay, I can understand if you're really small and can't pleasure her, cool. But why would you want anything bigger than like 6 inches.
Im 7 and I've had girls complain that it was hurting and shit.
You got all these dudes wanting a 8 and 9 inch dick like cmon that shit isn't even enjoyable.
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  • Bragging rights. Like if you're 7 inches no one can realistically insult the size of your manhood.

    Also too big is better than too small. With too big you could just not put the whole thing in. With too small you can't put more in than what you have to offer. Another aspect is that I don't think guys like the idea of other guys being able to reach further and touch areas of girls that they can't.

    Personally, I am 6 inches and honestly dont think its that big. I would rather be 6.5 or 7, that would be ideal to me. 8+ is just freakish tho.

    • That's what I'm saying like 6-7 is good size. 8+ is when you have to watch what you're doing or you'll hurt her. I was joking with my girlfriend about getting penis enlargement surgery and she was like "I would break up with you".

    • And in all honesty if a girl is that loose where she can take 8 or 9 inches easily, is that a girl worth having?

    • Taking 8-9 inches has nothing to do with being loose. A guy having a 6 in dick can have a larger girth than a guy with a 9 in dick. So in turn the girl would be looser with the 6 in than with the 9 in. Its a depth thing not a loose thing.

  • Ego and horror stories over small penis not touching the vital areas. That and eyes bigger than pussy.

    • Hahah eyes bigger than pussy

    • That ought to make all men chuckle!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Unrealistic expectations brought on by the porn industry. Men compare themselves to men they see in porn and feel inadequate. There are some size queens out there who love a big cock, but the average woman is usually satisfied with an average sized man as long as he is attentive to her needs and knows how to please her.

  • I donno I've been with guys who have 5" and that's been plenty pleasurable, I like the fact it can go all in and everything.

  • Because it's not about women, it's about them feeling more masculine.

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  • I'm not a fan of mandigos

  • I've wondered the same question!
    My boyfriend is 81/2, and he wishes he was like 10 inches. I'm like of my god no!

    It's hurts too much, we can't do doggy or anything too deep.

    I'd say around 5' would be good for me

  • I think it has to do with ego or pride

    • Yeah but I mean isn't it more prideful to be able to pleasure your woman without hurting her?

    • I would think so but everyone doesn't think the same you kno

  • I think it has to do with the male ego and competitiveness more than anything.

  • Simply because they think girls like it. You're wrong about a lot of girls not being able to handle it. With plenty of foreplay/teasing/both, the vagina gets more elastic and can more easily fit a big cock. Just that the media has lead many guys to believe that they can skip the foreplay.

    • Yeah an I suppose the you'll say the cervix feels great getting rammed by an 10 incher, go experience sex first bro

    • I agree I can take 9 in if I get warmed up but if not I won't be able to. I dated a guy that was 9 in and we had to get me nice and relaxed to be able to take every inch. And you can have a cervical orgasm so getting rammed in the cervix is amazing if you get lots of foreplay.

  • Yeah, over 7 is just crazy in my opinion.

    • I really don't see a point in it. It would be too annoying during sex

    • Plus its just not beneficial for us in the long haul, lol.

    • Exactly get you all stretched out and shit

  • I am happy with my normal size dick lol

  • Why am i cursed with an 7.

    I think it's a benchmark like Americans have the magically 6ft.
    A men will do (well most men) anything to look more manlier or win respect from other men. That's how we just are. We're like children in this section.

  • Mine is 6"-6.5" hard and I do not want i. Bigger

    • My man

  • Maybe they don't want a big penis solely to attract women

  • misconception that we want the bigger

  • "locker room envy"

  • Lmao, ambition bruh ambition.. 😎

  • Completely agree. Have to remind my boy sometimes.

  • I don't know it's like a weird man competitive thing, suppose to make them seem more manly to each other or whatever, I don't know I don't get it obviously.

  • It's enjoyable for some, but not most. Its visually stimulating and is way more to play with, which is definitely a perk. Takes a lot of time and practice to b abke to take a big dick, after that is mastered we never go back to small ones.

    • Ummm, you mean normal ones lol

    • Ehhhh I don't know about that. I've had fuck buddies tell me I'm better than guys they've been with who are 9 inches. I've had girls tell me my dick is perfect. So why the fuck would anyone want something that big.

    • I can't speak for why a dude would want one, I'm only speaking from the females point of view. And just bc a guy has a big dick doesn't mean he knows how to use it, you're one of the good guys that actually DOES. A big dick only makes for good sex if he, himself, is good at sex. Some females enjoy the pain of a big dick. It's not very common, but it's out there...

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