Why do all my guy friends want to fuck me?

Lately it seems like all my guy friends want to fuck me and I don't understand why I'm not really all that attractive and I'm not flirting with them but lately it seems like almost all of them have asked to have sex with me and I honestly don't know why?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • (With only very rare exceptions), you cannot have "platonic" guy friends if those guys are hetersexual, single, and aren't already getting tons of sex. I get that YOU can be platonic, but guys just don't work that way.

    Men and women both group (age-appropriate) people of the opposite sex into one of three categories, at roughly these percentages:

    - 3-5%: people I have romantic feelings for and would be interested in having a relationship with.
    - 45%: people I don't have romantic feelings for but I "like"
    - 50%: people I have no interest in of any kind.

    The first and last categories are self-explanatory and the same for both sexes, but the middle category is VERY different. Women call that category "guys I want to be 'just friends' with", while (single) guys call that category "girls I want to bang, but not be in a relationship with." Note that guys do NOT have a "just friends" category.

    Guys have a biological imperative to impregnate (which, obviously, means "have sex with" - these instincts are millions of years old, while birth control has only been around 60 years) as many women as possible, as this is the best strategy for ensuring the survival and growth of the species. Women have a biological imperative to choose the best man - one who has plenty of status and resources and can provide protection and security - to help raise her children with; again because this is what is best for the survival and growth of the species. This is why women prioritize relationships, and men prioritize sex.

    Asking guys not to prioritize sex is like asking crocodiles not to bite things and pull them underwater - it's not something they can change, because it's WHAT THEY ARE. If I told you to "stop being emotional", could you? Of course not - it's a big part of what you are as a woman. You feel things strongly, and you can't change that, and it's unreasonable to ask you to. The same is true of men and sex. It's why we exist.

    • Stop being sterotypical you dont know how emotional I am or whether or not I can control my emotions. And just becuase YOU can't be platonic with a friend who is a girl and have trouble not prioritizing sex doesn't mean other guys can't. Speak for yourself.

    • This isn't about me - but I definitely was making a generalization, because it's the truth the vast majority of the time. Why else would this question have been asked in the first place?

    • well I dont think your generalizations are right

  • From wouldn't understand as guide the more time I spent with warm in the more attractive they became to me. But with that being said it doesn't mean it's okay to still ask a friend to have casual sex lol

    • *As a guy*

    • "From what I understand as a guy"

    • "With a woman"

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Horny young guys is all. You're convenient. As in, around. Just tell them no and if they keep asking, you can't be friends. Either they'll stop, or you'll have to whack them one.

  • I have noticed this too when I am with guy friends a lot they start to flirt. its annoying because thats not what I want.. I want a good friend to talk to and share problems

    • For real it sucks too when you genuinely think your good friends and it turns out they only wanted to get with you

    • Well maybe you need to see if y'all can't fuck each other friends it is

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  • Because you're a girl? It's kind of how it works.

  • They are probably your friends because they think they might fuck you one day

  • They’re horny and they think you’re hot

  • To be honest, if you are even fairly attractive, guys are programmed to want to do that.

    • they should be able to control themselves and not f up a friendship

  • Sometimes "hot" can't be verbalized. You just are.

  • You're obviously attractive, otherwise they would not be attracted to you. Your opinion does not matter.

  • No guy looks at his attractive female friend and says "boy I definitely would NOT fuck her if given the opportunity."

  • May be you've got sexual appeal. That attracts men towards you to fuck. Or they think of you as a easy girl who would say yes whenever someone asks her to fuck. It can be either. Only way to be assure is to ask someone who wants to have sex with you.

  • Hitting on a female friend saves the effort of approaching. What's probably the hardest part to all guys.

  • That is probably the reason why most of them are your friends in the first place.

  • that's just completely normal. it's not just you. it's the same with every girl.

  • Your prob more attractive then you give yourself credit for. Plus sex is more casual these days

  • Are you sexy?

  • You never know, maybe you exude something that draws them to you. Maybe you are cute?

  • Maybe they all came up with an agreement to ask you and see if you would say yes. And I’m sure you’re more attractive than you think you are

    • Not unheard of I guess but unlikely. but yeah probably more attractive than you can tell for youdself.

  • What are their ages?

    • Between 19 and 29

    • The obvious answer is... they're not really "friends", they're just guys you know who think that because you're close in some way, you might want to fuck. That's all they are.

  • Cos there horny and your a girl with a pussy. Get use to it. Jus play your cards right

  • You must be having very sexy body.

  • I recommend a pic just for context. I'm sure you're more attractive than you think. All it takes for a young guy is a cute ass and cute face. Dont have to be real hot. And if you are a nice girl, but come off with a wildside then yeah you're gonna get the attention.

  • They think you are easy.

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