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  • That's like only 10% to 12% of black men do. Those men typically have been brainwashed to think white women or any non black women must be better than their own black women.

    And often times those men suffer from low esteem, hate/dislike themselves and their own people and feel that being with non black makes them feel less black or something.

    Also they feel having a white women gives them some sort of society status for having a white woman take interest in him.

    But I like I said those black men represent a very low percentage of black men in general.

    90% of black men marry black men and nearly 90% of black men are in a relationship with a black woman.

    • *black women.

    • I agree with you, but I think the percentage is a lot higher than that.

    • No. It's not higher. Check out the statistics. It just looks like that because 10% represents a couple million or so.

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  • Same thing can be said about black women and white men. At the end of the day... our race (if you are also black) has a lot of self hate happening within the community. Don't believe me? Take a look at Sammy Sosa:

    www.denverpost.com/.../sammy-sosa.jpg

    A lot of black people go after white people because they are trying to escape their African roots and want a light skinned child. I see this all the time. I'm not saying dating interacially is wrong, but if you're dating interacially, do it for the right reasons.

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  • I think it has something to with a woman of a different race seeming to be exotic. Same with Caucasian guys liking Asians, African Americans, etc... Its just something different.

    • Do you also see other guys from other races the same? :D

    • Absolutely. My guy is Spanish Portuguese American. His beautiful skin tone and handsome features caught my eye immediately. But his perfect full was. Mmmm! I think I would completely be in ahh if he had an accent.

    • *ass

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  • I guess different look can be attractive and exotic. Dunno hard to say

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  • This is utter BS.

  • Do you mean trophies, or property?

  • Some absolutely do. But most? No way.

    In fact, my round cute little ex was my trophy. And she was a "Black" woman.

    If you were not anonymous, I would send you her photo. But you need to develop some courage to reveal yourself and maturity to discuss material that is difficult to talk about.

    • Actually this has the potential to be a really interesting discussion. Any thoughts on why those who do have white trophies? As a white man in a white area I don't have much first hand experience with it. But that being said I used to live in an area that had a lot of workers from Jamaica and they would definitely be in the lookout for the white girls. But it's hard to compare because as I said it's a white area, they could just been looking for women in general and colour didn't really come into play, or they could've been looking for permanent residence. But it's not like I surveyed anyone

    • @Atreyu Well, it isn't like this is unknown. Many "Black" men hare spoken out about not dating "Black" women. Some have internalized racial stereotypes. Others have some psychological issues. Like take for example Dennis Rodman;

      books.google.com/books

  • I dunno. I kinda agree with the exotic theory mentioned before as well. Personally I have only ever dated white women (Im white) but have always wanted to date a black woman. No idea why. Its just... just because.

  • You posted this already. Stop being:

    Why do black men view white women as trophies?
  • someone got rejected...

  • Because they are, but to be fair though, all women are for that matter. And not to isolate beauty in any particular race per se, but we men naturally tend to gravitate towards what's more feminine overall. What's more is that alongside any attributes of the exotic. And when you've spent so much of your time around morbidly fat, loud, belligerent, and obnoxious women, any cessation of that is itself, an exotic relief. The greater this gradient, the more will leave. Not counting one night stands of course.

    • I think her point is that certain "Black" men can be attracted to morbidly fat, loud, belligerent, obnoxious "White" women and skip right over respectful, beautiful, thin, quiet, "Black" women. Because they are unable to rid themselves of the social conditioning that prevents them from judging women on the content of their character and for their individual unique beauty/skills. I am an old "Black" dude from the neighborhood and I have seen this firsthand.

    • True, you're right there, but unfortunately those negative connotations are more frequently concentrated in black communities situated in urban areas, and especially among the youth. Disregarding "advent prospectors" truly seeking anything different, I think the reason why a black guy would seek the same in a white woman, is because deep down, if nothing else, he wishes to escape some element of his own social conditioning even if it isn't aesthetically reflected in his choice. Not counting the obvious difference in color, and leaving similar characters the same, he could just be experimenting with different flavors of the same brand of "candy" so to speak. Doing so before eventually "ruining his teeth" that is, in the misguided belief that her somehow being white yet still rotten accrues less damage overall. In a one-to-one comparison of character, there simply is none with the title going to whichever's more outstanding.

    • But, faced with overwhelming environmental drudge, anything "exotic" may be viewed as a simple way out I suppose given the choice between relevant peace, and being fed up with [more] bullshit under normal circumstances. So, yes, the B. S. is in fact there, but evident in sufficiently less quantities to make the swap worth while, and the feminity factor, more unanimous instead of just an exceptional few. But it's a problem of unreasonably destructive mindsets, and not really color. Take 3rd wave feminism for example, if you think the mass exodus of black men from their estranged women was something to behold, wait until you see that among western men in droves searching in the east, and then sexbots finally as the MGTOW movement grows.

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  • Because they bitch less that black women.

    • This made my day.

  • Its a fetish.

  • Because they are. For every race.

  • Some white guys feel the same way about black women lol

  • Is that dave Chappell in the pic

  • because they love black cock on their tiny pussy.

  • I don't consider them to be any better than black females but black girls were not giving me the time of day for like 3 years so decided to date someone who was going after me and she is my best relationship yet before this I was actually attracted to really dark skinned black girls.

  • Because they have complex.

  • I don't think they do

  • This question deserves a

    Why do black men view white women as trophies?
  • Both these woman aren't attractive at all. Black woman to ratchet and vindictive. Loud and rude with no manner and have a me me me personality.

    • You're a black dude, no doubt.

    • Sure am. Ur a black chick no doubt. That assume that black dude only like fat white chicks

    • Nope because you always state the negatives about black women. You guys blame the women more than yourselves.

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  • Most of us don't and I'm black? I want someone who keeps in decent shape and who I could click with. If they're white or if they're black doesn't matter.

    I will say that every girlfriend I've had so far has been white. It's not because I've only went for white women it's just the way things turned out. Can't for a black woman to date me if she has no interest.

  • I'm a white male and I love all races but I see black women as trophies too. :-)

    • That made me smile, thanks :)

    • Aww sure. What race are you, if u don't mind me asking?

    • I'm black.

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