Why do boys assume that beautiful girls in high school have all had sex?

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  • It's because those guys are thinking like guys, rather than thinking like girls.

    Guys know that a beautiful girl will have endless OPPORTUNITIES to have sex, and so they ASSUME that she must have taken advantage of at least some of those opportunities - because if a guy has opportunities for sex, he will usually take them. But most women don't think that way - most women don't just want casual sex, they want relationships. Young guys tend not to understand that concept very well, because for a lot of young guys, a relationship isn't especially valuable - in fact, relationships often have a high cost and risk for men, so many men avoid them. And, so, they wrongly assume that women don't or shouldn't value relationships much, because he doesn't.

    What should REALLY happen is that, somewhere around 10th Grade, teens should be taught how the opposite sex tends to think and what they tend to prioritize and why. Most adults eventually figure this out, but we don't seem to have any will to TEACH young folks these hard-learned lessons, which in my book is a huge mistake. Life would be so much better for everyone if we understood the opposite sex, and what their motivations and priorities were. Because no one teaches us this, we tend to project our own motivations and priorities onto the opposite sex, with disastrous results.

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  • The best looking guys gave a lot more sex then average, ugly or even somewhat above average looking guys. So they probably presume it's similar.

    in fact there's data suggesting the most attractive women have less partners than average looking ones.

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  • Some boys are all out to get sex any way they can, and assume because that is how they relate to women, they think most girls act the same way. Others guys are just jealous, and haven't a clue.

  • Really? They are just spewing bullshit, and the boys who do that aren't worth dating. Date the boys who aren't desperate for peer approval.

  • Mostly because they watch porn and don't have a clue what reality actually is for both of you.

  • Probably because they were often the ones with athletic boyfriends, like football players, who liked to party.

  • Cause they talk about it all the time.

  • You can blame the dumb movies for giving that bad idea about girls

  • because nowadays teens dont think and would spread their legs to anyone and sometimes even the ones with a good mindset are either manipulated or blinded by fake love which eventually leads to them spreading their legs and guys look more on physical which means they go for chicks that are more physically attractive which means that when someone judges based on just what they see, they take a guess and say the pretty girl has most likely already had sex.

  • Because many of them did.

    And even more of them did not. Some of those like to pretend they did.

  • Why do boys assume that beautiful girls in high school have all had sex?

    mybe because she's beautiful?

  • I don't think they do, do they?

  • Because why wouldn't they have it? they can obviously get it.

  • Because it doesn't make any sense if they don't because they get all the attention well honestly ik that's not true at all. A lot of pretty girls i know are virgins simply because they want to be

  • When I was in highschool, it was because other girls told everyone they did.

  • They dont

  • Guess as teen guys sex girls cars and sport

  • Because they are super attractive.

  • Don't know, but one time went with my then girlfriend to get her refill of birth control pills and 6 of the popular A-List girls were waiting in the lobby too.

  • Bc 80% of 15-16 girls already had sex, so if a girl is attractive, the odds are there

  • I mean all the ones I knew had so

  • Low self esteem. Have the notion if someone is attractive then she has to be with someone.

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