I've heard guys own up to not being good in bed if he cums too fast or is out of shape but i’ve never heard a girl take accountability if she’s bad at it or can’t make herself cum. Are girls aware they can be bad at it? or that some girls can cum easier than others and if one girl is more difficult it’s not always the guys fault?
Well it boils down to this, who got off and who didn't?
I know pretty much even if it was bad sex, at some point the guy can buckle down and at least orgasm. Is it a good one, no but its an orgasm none the less. So for women they think it was good for him, because at less he had an orgasm... for the guy he is thinking I could did better masturbating myself then that.
In my 46 years of life and 8 different partners I only had one women where it was so bad, I was like forget it. I did not orgasm and honestly she was pretty apologetic about it. She said she knew she could of done better. But the thing was is that she just was not into it... on some level we did not vibe. I know previously we had some pretty steamy make out sessions in my car and it was hot. But we finally when on a over night trip together and we were sober and there was nothing steamy about it. It felt pretty awkward.
She was terrible, pretty lame, and when ever I tried to change positions she was all awkward about it and acted like she had no idea how to have sex. The next morning we tried again, and I pushed through it, but it wasn't good. After that weekend we never dated again.
I will admit I was probably pretty bad, but so was she... I don't blame her or myself, the spark just wasn't there.
Because guys do the fucking, mostly. Most women were raised to be extremely uncomfortable with expressing any kind of sexual need or desire, so they would rather that a man be comfortable enough to experiment and test things out on his own, without her needing to vocalize her needs for herself.
Although some women definitely are not good at sex, it’s a different dynamic. For men, they might like a woman to put on a better performance and be kinkier or whatever the issue is but they are still orgasming regularly. More often than not, it’s the woman who is left frustrated in the relationship. Most women don’t climax from penetration and need other forms of stimulation, which many men are disinterested in providing. If I have to get myself off, then what do I really need a partner for? I firmly believe this is why women are 3 times more likely to end a relationship than men are.
I've tried to blame myself for my boyfriend not cumming but he refused to let me take the blame. He said he drank too much alcohol and he never has an issue cumming. Its only rare times. he's usually 3-4 mins and when he drinks he's 20-mins and i do fuck the shit outta him to. My best o's are from being on top.
Not all women blame the dude. And if they do its because they feel like its them and blows their confidence down the toilet. No one wants to feel like their sex sucks
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Because I will look like a damn acrobat trying to make him cum in all these positions and he does. Then he tells me I'm great at it, but he never really tries to make me feel good.
Never heard anyone do this. But in the interest of full disclosure, I don't sit around with friends and talk about sex.
No matter what the issue is, most people always find it easier to shift blame away from them selves.
The more sexual partners she has had, the less likely she is to be satisfied by her current partner. Therefore, it often IS her own fault, unless he ejaculates early.
I don't! That's why you talk to eachother about what you like and dislike so it's a pleasant for the both of you.
i don't know if you noticed this but girls generally never take accountability for anything.
Lots of times you hear venting. I’ve heard guys vent about girls also.
Bc they refuse to believe the truth - just like blaming their body issues on hormones or dna.
girls expect to be "serviced" like a expensive automobile or.. an old Junker... NOPE... not worth the grief
women never admit fault for anything.
Because girls believe that guys are just suposed to know what to do.
They fck us, obviously
Women can be bad at sex too and definitely boring compared to some of the kinky stuff their boyfriends watch in porn. It's easier to deflect and blame their partners for dull sex. Admitting that she isn't great at sex would hurt her ego (Yes, some women have bigger egos than men when it comes to being sexually desirable).
Because what makes it bad is usually bad/weak performance from the guy. Duh!
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