If understanding the female perspectve matters. . .
1. For a woman, having sex means exposing herself in the most vulnerable way she can imagine. Maybe she is self-conscious about her 32A boobs or perhaps its the few extra pounds around her middle; maybe she is afraid you will go into overdrive and try to pull some kinky stuff or you will expect oral sex and swallowing and that's something she just doesn't do. Having sex for the first time with a new partner is scary and she really needs to trust you before she takes a chance on being ridiculed for her small boobs or whatever it is that causes her concern.
2. Women are concerned that you will not like what they do in bed, that you will judge them harshly for not having any experience, for having too much experience, for being too much of a slut, for not being enough of a slut. They have all heard that expression that “men want a woman who is a lady in public and a whore in the bedroom,” but they don’t know whether it is true.
3. Women are worried that they may have been taken in by a very convincing player and that you will ghost them as soon as they let you have an evening of play in the funhouse.
4. Some girls hear their mother’s voice in their head, telling them “Nice girls keep their panties on until they are married.”
5. Most girls know that, once they have sex with you, the relationship will move forward and it will never move backward. They may have some lingering doubts about committing to you and, as soon as they have sex with you, those doubts will be cast aside and they will feel committed to you.
The result of all that is that a woman who is looking for a serious relationship is often not ready to have sex with a guy until she has developed trust in him, and that takes time.
So tere's some explanation. . . again, if it matters.
Oh brother, you just don't understand women all that much, do you? Women want to believe they know you, so they can feel safe or comfortable with you. And the ones that do not care about it, ask yourself are these the types of women you really want to get involved with?
Most women know within the first few minutes of the first date if they would or could see themselves having sex with you... but then they want to validation of those thoughts, just insure you're not some creep. See most women don't see you as a one-time score, so they have to figure out if you're the type of person they could see themselve dating long term... and having sex with you multiple times. Which honestly most guys are very happy with that prospect... I mean would rather take a little time upfront with a woman and wait... if it meant you could get boned several times or dozens of types later, and maybe find a true and dear friend?
The ones that bone right off the bat as far women go, never last. You get annoyed with them or tried of them pretty quick, then you're right back out there trying to find a different woman again... and sometimes that happens quick, and you get on a good run... and sometimes it takes months with no sex.
1) Dildos are as dramatic as a piece of plastic. So peaceful. They don't harass, badger, pester or annoy (or intimidate even) a woman for sex like many immature men do.
2) A dildo is merely a toy. Typically not going to show it off to friends/family. Women with self-respect want to try & find a guy worth showing off not whoever says hello.
3) Women don't have to worry about STDs from their dildo. A lot of people sleep around, so better to be safe than sorry getting involved right off with a manwhore.
4) Women rarely if not never form any feelings with their dildo. It is release of tension. Has less meaning than wiping your ass.
5) Women don't have to worry about pregancy with their dildo. Yes there's birth control & condoms but that's a fail safe, it's not 100%. Lots of men like "natural".
I could keep going if you like?
@BlackBeauty90 no need to go on, you have made some very valid points and I agree with you
A dildo won't treat you like shit, won't carry diseases, it is a pleasure product.
having relations with an individual requires a much deeper connection mentally.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!That's just another way of saying "you aren't hot enough to bang me the same day you met me" - because those rules don't apply if the guy is really hot.
ROFL. This is reality, you're just embittered whining. 1) Dildos are as dramatic as a piece of plastic. So peaceful. They don't harass, badger, pester or annoy (or intimidate even) a woman for sex like many immature men do. 2) A dildo is merely a toy. Typically not going to show it off to friends/family. Women with self-respect want to try & find a guy worth showing off not whoever says hello. 3) Women don't have to worry about STDs from their dildo. A lot of people sleep around, so better to be safe than sorry getting involved right off with a manwhore. 4) Women rarely if not never form any feelings with their dildo. It is release of tension. Has less meaning than wiping your ass. 5) Women don't have to worry about pregancy with their dildo. Yes there's birth control & condoms but that's a fail safe, it's not 100%. Lots of men like "natural". I could keep going if you like?
Point taken, however, I am guessing that Dildo use is a minority usage unless on internet as everyone has to keep up?
A better question is why do so many "modern" women slide in the dick of whatever random hookup they fancy when they are "finding themselves" and "just havint fun" but when they finally decide to seriously date afyer being run through, they decide to make that guu wait for sex? Now that one is a stumper. Why do supposedly hot random dudes get the goods but not the guys they supposedly care about?
To make sure he's not like you
Of course not. We know where it came from as we bought it.
The dildo has to take me on at least 3 dates before I even consider putting it inside me
Dildos don't come with STDs, emotional baggage, drama, and pregnancy. They don't talk back and they don't check out other girls or cheat.
But, more importantly, why are all questions like this anonymous? Just stand up and use your username to ask these questions. So, you know, we know where the question came from.
I've sometimes, rarely, wondered that. Definitely in my earlier 20s I wondered that. I'm guessing maybe a fair chunk of women just like to be picky, sometimes for the sake of it or for the thrill of having their pick of so many 'easy' men versus also as others have said, being wary of easy men who may turn out to be total whackjob nutcases. Personal safety indeed lol or scammers lol indeed, so anyways, have a happy holidays and thanks for the fantastic question, 🥳🥳🥳👀
You are comparing yourself to a dildo, dumbass. Have more self respect than girls have for you,.
This is one stupid question xD
I suppose this is a valid question.
haha dildos dont talk back lmao... :0)
Dildos can't give a person stds or make them pregnant. That should be obvious though.
They need to have an emotional connection not a physical one.
Maybe not every woman is a shallow sex addict who is completely devoid of emotion.
If you see a guy as only a penis, then you don't. Most girls don't see a guys as only a penis though.
Yeah they have dinner with their toys, if it shows good vibrations then they're in 😉
It is not accurate or fair to say that all girls always say they need to get to know a guy before having sex with him. People's attitudes and behaviors towards sex and relationships vary widely, and it is important to recognize that everyone has the right to make their own decisions about when and with whom they choose to have sex.
That being said, it is common for people, both men and women, to want to get to know someone better before becoming sexually involved with them. This may be for a variety of reasons, such as wanting to ensure that they are compatible, feeling more comfortable and safe with someone they know well, or wanting to build a deeper emotional connection.
It is important to respect other people's boundaries and decisions about when and with whom they choose to have sex, and to communicate openly and honestly about your own desires and boundaries in relationships. It is also important to remember that sex should always be consensual and that it is never okay to pressure or coerce someone into having sex.
A sex toy is still mastubation so you already know yourself.
I think girls just say that so they can know if you're the type to instantly caught feelings and get attached. They don't have to worry about their dildo getting the wrong idea
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