Why do girls hate to have anal sex?

I ask this que bc I asked my ex's to try anal sex but they dont want I just want to know why girls dont wanna have anal sex? girls
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  • Not all girls hate anal sex. One of my best friends likes to do to this with her man. But she started to do this only for his pleasure. It was very painful for her the first 15 times. Then it hurt less and she says she likes it now. But some women actually do like it.

    A lot of guys I know are against anal sex. I would be turned off by a guy who asked me for anal. Sorry not for me. It's for 2 guys if you ask me. Not saying anyone is wrong or gay if they like anal. I am just being honest. Even if I could bare the pain... I'd have homosexual imagery in my mind the entire time and probably afterward. I'd probably lose attraction.

    Not to mention the fact that I'd lose attraction and respect for a man who thought it would be fun to have his pleasure met by causing me intense pain. No thank you.

    • I just like to try new tng with my girl thats why what do u tng I should do to make it more fun and less pain?

    • I don't really know because I don't have experience with it. Just talk to her about it. If she trusts you and loves you maybe she'll feel comfortable with you? Maybe ask another guy for techniques whose done this before without hurting her much.

  • Look at it this way: guys and girls are the same in some ways... and they are different in other ways. Ways they are different: a girls breast are kind of big, a guys are kind of small. A girl has a vagina, a guy has a penis. Okay so now here is how we are the same: we both have arms, we both have legs, we each have a nose... oh yeah, and one butt hole each. Butt holes... we both have one and they are the exact same thing for each of us. So now let me ask you this: would YOU take it up the butt? Yes? then i have no idea why your girlfriend won't have anal sex with you.

    • I will not but girls have big ass

  • Not every girl hates it.
    Many girls, like myself, actually love it and want it just as much as vaginal sex, if not more.

    • Dam girl I wish I can have u

    • Thanks for MH!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Hate to have anal sex because:
    1) Not sexually aroused.
    2) Not lubricated enough.
    3) Hate the smell coming from the ass.

  • They don't know how great it can be and if they've tried it it's been with a guy who had no idea what he was doing.

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  • For me personally I hate the idea of anal sex. A female body does not have anything down there that would cause pleasure for her by going in through that hole, I have heard it is very painful and uncomfortable and the only women I've ever talked to about this have just "put up with it" for the sake of his pleasure but have gotten nothing out of it themselves.

  • I don't, most are afraid of it hurting and vaginal sex usually has more pleasure for women.

  • It's painful, gross concept, and it's not pleasurable so what's the point if you're going to get off and we're not?

    • i tnk it will be painfull if z guy didnot warm z ass well by using his fingers and lotions

    • It's painful no matter what. & still disgusting to go through. Nothing is meant to go "in" a females' bum. There's literally NO pleasure nerves or anything of meaning for women in anal.

    • Ya but anal is flexable if u get more wet and warmed it will feel less pain u just need to be relax so it will be flexable

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  • Think of it this way.

    When having sex with a virgin their first time is usually extremely uncomfortable.

    So think of it as her losing her anal virginity. Except it'll probably hurt 10x worse considering that that's not what that hole is made for.

  • If you really want to know the answer, then put something big up your ass.

  • because unlike men women don't have a prostate which is what makes anal sex enjoyable. basically it does nothing for use but cause pain and discomfort.

  • Try sticking a penis size thing (or a real pens) in your butt hole and then come back to this question. Thank you.

    • A cucumber does!

  • Intense pain.

  • She would have to think you're a fucking god to do that. Or be a p*rn star. Because it hurts! And think of all the germs up the ying yang! Maybe she's a germ conscious person.

  • Some do and some don't. It's something each woman feels differently about, there is no all or none in this area.

  • It hurts so bad. Literally left me in tears more than once and the only successful time was not pleasurable because the pain was mostly what I felt.

    • there is more pain after anal sex it is true

  • because the anus is not meant for sex? obviously

  • Would you be up for taking one up the behind?

    • I wanna give her in z ass to try hw it feels and hw she feels

    • So that means no if your not willing why should your girl be into it.

    • I heard that it feels so gud bc z ass is more tight than z pussy so I will feel more and imagine if she got big ass it will be more wow

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  • Cause the majority of them are weak and pick about it! I also don't understand that since all they have to do is to open their legs and let the man have pleasure.

  • Because we don't have vaginas for no reason. It would be extremely painful. If you would like to do anal why don't you have sex with a man perhaps?

    • its just bc I wanna try new tng wiz my girl thats all

    • I personally think anal is a bit extreme. Try using different varieties of sex toys first to make sex more intriguing

  • Not all girls hate it- I didn't always like It and bottom line, it was the wrong guy- I of course did it the first time with him was strictly for him, when you are truly in love, and have trust- I actually like it. I like that he likes it which was enough for me-
    So... when you really really love someone, you want to please him, now, I actually like it sometimes- and its never a surprise!!! I know first, okay it, he starts off slow and I personally enjoy it now... and not just cuz it pleases him, it does me now too- Practice practice practice--If she doesn't trust u, its not gonna happen as a man is in complete control and could seriously hurt, my man NEVER HURTS ME-