Why do girls have such a hard time climaxing with there partner?

[Anonymous]

I want girl or guys individual response?

Like what is your specific blocker. (Not the whole population of womens problem in bed.)

Are you able to climax by yourself. Is it way easier, why is that?

[Little_Bumblebee]

Good question.

I have struggled ever since I became sexually active. I had to focus very hard and it was only and barely possible when I received oral.

I've gotten a lot better at it, but I can still struggle and it's still mostly possible with oral - at least when I'm with a partner.

I have noticed how much my mind can affected whether or not I'll suceed.
If my mind isn't into it, might as well just give up.

I had a partner that did a lot of dirty talking, and it helped a lot as it kept my mind off running away and it kept me in the moment, focusing on what was happening and it riled me up.

[Asker]

Have you tried using a vibrator during intercourse?

[Anonymous]

You need to use your hand at some point too or your mouth in other case.

[EricSummer]

Many women cannot come from penetration alone though for some it depends on the position. I find it works best when she is on top.

Still, when adding stimulation from fingers, hers or the partner's, they should find a way.

If not, a blockage could exist in her head so that she cannot trust and relax, for example early in the relationship. I think to get comfortable it is a good idea for her to masturbate and show you how she makes herself come. This way, when she gives herself an orgasm while you are there and holding her it can help her open up to you.

[Asker]

I am looking for specifics. What are your blockers as a man during intercourse. Not a generalization of all the womens blockers in intercourse.

[Davidbrooks]

Ok there is a difference between boys and men. If you keep having sex with boys well its pot luck. You have sex with a man he will please you in ways you could only dream of. I'm not talking about age here.

[Asker]

th are you talking about lol

[Davidbrooks]

Men know how to please a woman in bed. Boys are hopeless in bed they are just in it for themselves.

[Asker]

Boys aren't even in the conversation. Again th are you talking about? Every guy is a man.

[Davidbrooks]

Your partner isn't man enough to give you orgasim. Only a real man can do that. He is just a boy.

[Asker]

Vibrators dont have reproductive capabilities.

[Asker]

I can troll to... Boy

[Davidbrooks]

You can say anything you like when you don't use your name in this conversation. Look l probably over stept the mark and if l have offended you lm anyway, im sorry

[Asker]

Does using my name, make a difference. No you didn't offend me, Lol I was justing being excessively inflammatory for no reason lol. I just think your point is really derivative and generalist. Like it doesn't really say anything. I wanted to hear what you truly mean in terms of the original question. Wish you Best

[teamvic]

I'd say probably cause a lot of guys think pure penetration will do the job. When that's not the case

[Asker]

What is your specific blocker

[Asker]

I can't believe there are men who still believe that to be true.

[Billlewis]

Many women have difficulty reaching orgasm exclusively from intercourse, for one thing.

[Asker]

Yes bra but what specifically what is your blocker individually.

[Billlewis]

I only perform oral service for the women I date/serve, so I don't know how helpful I can be in that regard.

[Asker]

Are you a prostitute? How much do you charge for service if you do? Do you charge by time base because sometimes you can't be successful. Or the amount of Orgs? Or maybe you have money back garauntee if she doesn't. That would be quite the pressure to preform.

[BigDog1989]

Because only women know what women want. And are too afraid to show men

[Anonymous]

*Their.