Why do girls who enjoy sex get called a whore but it isn't even mentioned for guys?

Why do girls who enjoy sex get called a whore but it isnt even mentioned for guys?

So I joined this site to ask some questions about sexuality, a topic I find fun and enjoy talking about! I have fully embraced my sexuality and have an amazing sex life because of that. But I received messages calling me a whore! What I also find weird is why someone takes the times to read sex related posts... just to send abusive messages, why does it bother people so much what a woman does and if she enjoys sex? When for a guy it really isn't a topic, a guy is expected to enjoy sex but if a girl does they're a whore?

(I am aware some girls like being called this or similar words as part of their sex life and dirty talk but this isn't what I mean here and this isn't what the messages mean either)

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  • Thats not what whore means.
    A whore is a prostitute.

    • Exactly!!

  • Because those guys are fucken idiots who blame their blue balls on others and not themselves

  • Nobody needs to remind you that there's obviously a double standard, right? Just to clarify though - whores get paid for sex. If you don't get paid and do it a lot because you enjoy it and you're female, you're a slut. If you don't get paid and do it a lot because you enjoy it and you're male, you're a stud. See the difference? LOL

  • Sexism and prejudice

    • Agreed

  • Part of the ridiculous double standard in it society for men and women. The guys who get worked up and offended because you embrace your sexuality are not worth your time. You stay true to yourself and the guys who are worth it will value you for you

  • Yeah I agree with you i don't see why people call a woman a whore or slut just cause she loves sex and having fun. Then with guys we get a high five or a you the man compliment. Woman should not be called those names sex is a physical and emotional connection and life experience everyone should have. Also some woman like sex more then men. It makes you feel good, relieved of stress and worries and it's natural. The people that call you that is either people that haven't had sex or just trolls hiding behind a screen. If I was just you just enjoy sex and don't listen to the mean messages.

  • It seems ridiculous to me. The double standard is unfair.

  • Because society has a underlying double standard. Just like with the "resting bitch face" phenomenon

    • I think there's definitely a shift and on the whole I don't face any comments in my day to day life, I guess I was just surprised by some people's reactions here and I thought I'd found a safe and fun place to talk and ask questions. And to be fair lots of people have been helpful and open minded, I was just surprised by the volume of narrow minded or views that I consider old fashioned or dated

    • You'll find resistance everywhere you go. But I'm glad you've found people that are actually constructive and respectful.

  • I agree with you. It's unfair that when a guy does the same no one calls him anything. I do see a guy as a whore too of he is one.

  • Girls who enjoy sex aren’t whores. Girls who participate in hook up culture are. Enjoying sex with your SO is not whorish

  • Because it's far easier to blame someone else than it is to blame oneself. Men who call women whore do so mostly because they feel they have to put in a lot more effort than other guys and simply can't take that they arn't wanted.

    The opposite isn't applied to men simply because women don't chase. They get a "no" then they don't pursue or put in more effort and certainly not in any financial way like offering to pay for expenses etc.

    • So whores don't exist? Wow

  • I would never call a girl whore for having lots of sex for money

  • Because getting sex is easy for women. For men it's an accomplishment. That's why we call it scoring.

    A key that opens many locks is a Master key. A lock that's opened my many keys is a shitty lock.

  • He’s a common double standard, though I think it’s easing. With trans and gay rights, all sex is getting a bit freer.

  • They're called G@G trolls. BLOCK & DELETE! End of story!

  • Wait! why is society still sex shaming people today?😩😩😩

    • Boring right?

    • Tell me about it SarahSizzle😩😩. He proud to be a sexual liberated young woman SarahSizzle.👍👍. Hold your head up high my friend 🤛

    • *Be proud

  • Women are supposed to stay with ONE guy and have as much sex as she likes. Thats NOT a whore. Men the same with women.
    Those who bounce around looking for sex with others not into just ONE are f... n whore's, men or women. Funny how they both find each other eventually.

  • We are called players or cheaters or sex addicts or perverts. And evil fornicators. Many bad terms are also thrown our way.


    I don’t know why people have such hate In their hearts.

  • They call men players

  • Women hate men who sleep around as well.

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