Why do guys always have sexual thoughts?

[Stockley]

I went snorkeling with my brother and his friends, all they talked about was girls and sex. It was really awkward!

[MrOracle]

At your age, and on vacation with hot girls all around? Pretty much, yes.

It's a little easier to keep focused on other things when you're in the garage alone working under the car in the winter, or in the basement coding an app. But when you're around attractive women wearing not much in the way of clothing in a relaxed atmosphere? Can you really be surprised by this?

[Stockley]

Wearing a wetsuit lol

[DOGMA1954]

Sorry you had to hear all that, but they are being normal. This is part of what all male are. Its in are DNA to be this way from the beginning of creation or evolution, which ever one you believe in. Men evolved to be hunter gathers and also reproduce. It is our true nature, so dont be offended.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Guys aren't the only ones who have sexual thoughts. People always have sexual thoughts!!! And what's wrong with that. There's nothing wrong with having sexual thoughts. Iit's wrong tho to try to shame someone or a whole gender for what's normal behavior!

[crystaaal]

well its kind of the same as asking yourself why are girls so emotional. Its just how it is. I think the proper question to ask is why do people talk and act inappropriately at the wrong time and place. just a thought

[Bengal_Sultan]

Men have more testosterone and so, a higher sex drive.

[normalice]

At that age, hormones are screaming at us to accumulate as much ass as we can arrange. Which usually turns out to be zero.

[EmmaMary]

Because guys have a single track mind. lol

[Stockley]

😁 haha I don't want to agree but maybeeee

[EmmaMary]

Of course you have to agree, we women all know it's entirely true!

[Stockley]

Haha I dont know every man alive!

[EmmaMary]

Hmmm fair enough, point taken. lol

[Levin]

Cause it's fun and natural?

But hearing a bunch of circa 19 year old Aussie guys harp on about sex, doesn't sound like my idea of fun.

[Stockley]

It was not fun!!

[Levin]

Anyway, you trying to tell me that girls don't have sexual thoughts?

[Stockley]

We do just not like guys. Openly talking about how "tight" a girl is seems very weird

[Levin]

Oh yeah, that's very crass. But you're an Aussie right? I imagine Aussie guys are very crass indeed!

[Stockley]

These guys are!

[Levin]

All Aussies :P I met an Aussie girl on a night out. She wasn't exactly, shall we say, demure :P

[Stockley]

😁😁😁😁

[reptocarl]

Stupid question. It’s how we’re made

[ShadowofRegret]

Some guys are sex-crazed perverts.

[JohnAlaska43]

Well we are all sexual in our own right.
The thing is as long as brother isn't lusting over you with his friends just let them be.
You gals talk sexually about guys as well. can't tell me you and your friends dont talk about guys sexually.

[Gatman34]

Cause women aren’t good for anything else

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Well guys have the major sex hormones so that is totally normal
i do think you need to tell your Brother off if he's making you uncomfortable
talking about sex around you and girls. It can be embarrassing for sure

[Ripper_E]

Why do women?

[MackToday]

That's so our species doesn't go extinct.

[Laozi]

Because of our genes. We're programmed like that.
Jokes apart.
Not every guy talks about sex. And there are many girls who likes to talk about sex.

[SoMuchNut]

I reject your assertion that guys always have sexual thoughts.

[mattym11]

Then tell him to grow up & stop!

[Browneye57]

It's the T honey. You know, the sex-drive hormone. They have some 15-25 times as much as you do.
While it's physically impossible for women to grasp this, if they could understand it would be a game-changer.

[genericname85]

come on as if you'd talk so much less about it when you're with the girls...

[whitehide]

I don't always have sexual thoughts. Sometimes I do, but I won't talk about it infront of anyone if it makes them uncomfortable.

[TonyMetal_1986]

As if girls don't talk about guys and sex plus make ups and beauty accessories and fashion.

[Stockley]

I dont. Its personal.

[AmourHoney]

We don’t talk about nearly as often as men do, y’all manage to turn everything sexual.

[TonyMetal_1986]

@Stockley, it's personal when your in a serious relationship, i personally never talk with my friends about sex and personal stuff, especially if i was married, everything that goes between me and my wife will remain between us.

[TonyMetal_1986]

@AmourHoney agreed, some girls so talk about such things even more than men but in your case i have to say that a woman and a man usually think and act in a different way because their minds are wired differently.

[Stockley]

That's fair i guess. I find it awkward.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Don'r you know that teenage boys or young adults like to make up liea on their friends like how many girls he slept with and talking about his sexual adventures like he's a pornstar while nothing from what he said is real but they enjoy faking stories and making themselves looking as superman towards each other 😄 In my age such dialogs are refuced a lot, we don't make a lot of these convos anymore and it is known that a woman reaches maturity faster than men. I believe that a man and a woman should keep everythinf sexual only between them and no one have the right to know what's happening between a husband and a wife.

[Stockley]

I agreed mostly. Guys are immature at my age

[TonyMetal_1986]

That's true and that's why you see more often boys in your age just following a girl for sexual purposes and aren't stable in their lives while girls in your age, prefer a serious relaitionship and a loving famiy with a real man who can handle responsibilities

[Marco10]

Not all guys have sexual thoughts all the time. If we see a hot woman, we would have sexual thoughts, it’s how human beings are built. Doesn’t mean we should act on it of course!

[Dragan]

In the teenage years, this is normal.

[thewiggles]

Nothing better on their minds