Why do guys always say to girls they are the best in bed?

[Anonymous]

Everyone I have ever been with said this, I’m pretty sure it’s just something you guys say. So why you lying? haha

[Effably]

Could actually just be true. Sometimes if everyone is saying the same thing, it is because that's how it is.

But! Overselling your partners sexual prowess is a relatively harmless and often mutually beneficial thing. More often than not they become more confident and happy because they feel desired and approved of. In turn because they now envision themself a sexual divinity their confidence and enthusiasm to show off and acknowledge their already confirmed skill makes them better. Its a positive feedback loop. Sure it doesn't always work, but usually helps.

There have been a fair amount of studies done on expectation and outcome. Generally more with having a teacher praise a students intelligence or not and it is very much confirmed it helps. This is leaning into the same idea.

[FilmGuy93]

You might genuinely be a talented lover, but the far more likely answer to your question is that men say that kind of thing because women absolutely do not handle any kind of criticism about their sexual technique well. It could also be that the men have had a lot really bland sex and you were better than that.

[Asker]

The last guy that said it used to swing with his wife lol so I just laughed and told him don’t lie to me

[FilmGuy93]

Gotcha... yeah... there is a really good chance that because he wants to have sex with you again. You gotta understand that sex at all is a tough thing for most men to get. And passably decent sex is a straight up rarity.

[Asker]

That’s surprising I would prefer honest feedback or to be told what to do sometimes

[Asker]

He told me he wasn’t lying 🤨 but really how do you have bad sex?

[FilmGuy93]

Well, that might be why the men gave you such a good review. As I (and at least one other guy) said above, it is possible that you genuinely are the best those guys have ever had because of your desire to be an enjoyable partner. Most women are really bad at sex. Having a woman who is genuinely communicative and receptive, and wants to give her partner pleasure goes a long way to having a good session. Women are not the selfless, infinitely giving people they've been made to believe they are.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

It’s creepy to me like A how many girls have you been in the bed with exactly and b why are you thinking about it and comparing it to me

[OlderAndWiser]

For most guys, the best sex they ever had is the sex they are having right now or the sex they just finished having.

[spartan55]

Maybe they aren't.. we all don't share the same playbook. I only pulled that one out one time. And it was 100% true.

[Asker]

What made it different?

[Paul_in_Indy]

I am not lying. I told my last girl that she was the best except for you.

[Ill_made_Knight]

It's a sales pitch

[slatyb]

Maybe you really are the best. After I divorced and started dating, women told me that too. I was really surprised, as I didn't imagine I was anything special. But they convinced me. What made me so great? I paid attention to their body language instead of just hammering away.

[exitseven]

I have never had bad sex. I have a body count of 4 but I suspect that I could have a body count of 40 and would stiill say the same thing.

[BarryLiverstone]

They lie because they wanna have Sex again and their fear is if they criticize and tell you things you did badly that you will not wanna have sex again. Oh that negative feedback will be things you throw back in their face in the future. So by lying the guys are avoiding risks right?

[Asker]

No lying breaks the trust

[BarryLiverstone]

Of course it breaks the trust. But lemme give you an example. Let’s say you have sex with the guy and he thought when you were on top you had a double chin. Now if he’s honest and tells you that wouldn’t you take that feedback and think about it later on? Or let’s say that he tells you that he expected you to be wetter after foreplay because other girls had been really wet.. wouldn’t that feedback cause you to feel badly later on and you would remember his feedback next time you had foreplay?

[Deed112ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤl]

Soooooo, you are saying you can't be trusted?

[Deed112ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤl]

I'm saying intentionally lying to your partner is bad. You should know this... right? It's not a good habit you know... right?

[LiamJHayden]

I've never said that, but I have had it said to me on occasion. I just assume it might seem like that for her "in the moment" but that it is not actually true.

[kellytheman]

Well if your well experienced you might be but yeah guys say that a lot either because they might want to have sex again and make you feel you make them happy. Also its kinda like flirting or dirty talk.

[Twalli]

You may be really good, maybe you are the best they've had. My girlfriend is, but she's competing with nobody else, so it's not really saying much. She's also the worst I've had.

[Surely]

First off. You might be the most talented woman that they had the pleasure of enjoying your company.
Secondly. Why insult someone by saying that they are terrible in the sack. If you want to keep enjoying what they had to offer!
“Cutting your nose off to spite your face “

[SmokinAces2000]

I’ve only said that to my girlfriend, I haven’t said it to any other girl

[MasterKS]

just to make them happy, i know some dead fish in bed.

[kareka]

Yes we do lies
Girls like it..
When i say its the best butt i see the girl will be happy lol

[Asker]

No don’t lie I don’t care I react like this 🤨 lol

[kareka]

Haha somegirls like lies

[Asker]

No I’m like I know how to make you feel so good but other women can do it too because it’s not difficult.

[RogueScorpion]

you know your job

[Anonymous]

So they will fuck them. To be honest as I found out with my ex generally the quality of a woman's sex life is psychological. If she doesn't love you no more, doesn't respect you, doesn't want to be with you no more, is bored of you, is cheating on you, is intrested in another guy or a whole host of other problems she may have with you then she will not enjoy sex with you and wknt cum with you no matter how hard you try. With my ex I gave her her very first orgasm. She cried when she came, she ran away the first time she had a squirting orgasm. Used have to set down towels and turn the mattress over because she squirted so much. Fast forward a few years and a baby and she's no intrest in me and never cums with me, she lets me do my thing and will satisfy me sexually but no big o. Turns out she f*cking a guy behind my back.

[Anonymous]

Some guys are joking around and someg guys are dry vain and don’t fail or suck at anything and most are just lying lpl

[Anonymous]

Maybe you are, but as long as he cums fast then he probably will think that