Why do guys disappear after hookups?

[Darine123]

Before had sex, they would call or text you a lot but why after swx they choose to disappear?

[Adventurer23]

Because hookups aren't a romantic relationship. For guys who are only into hookups, it's just sex. They're generally not looking for much more. If you're looking for more intimacy and time spent with you, hookups aren't your best bet. Instead, wait for someone who demonstrates they are capable of giving you the kind of intimacy you require before sleeping with them. It's not up to them, it's up to you to only allow someone into your life who has the kind of traits you require. You're the gatekeeper. Don't throw anyone the keys.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Because they decided a while ago the relationship wasn't going anywhere. I don't want to blame you because I don't know anything about you but sometimes it's just a matter of the woman assuming the man has no problem with the issues they bring to the relationship. Which could be anything, we all have issues right? Maybe he brought them up and he felt like you didn't respect it.

Again, I have no idea, but I think it's worth throwing out there. For all I know the guys just an asshole.

[Jojojojojojojo]

Because all he wants is sex... nothing more.

If he wants it again he will text u and be as clingy as before.

But yea Dont fall for it again. and make sure u tested the man before sex. or It s like a scam...

[ohsheeT]

1. nowadays probably 95% of men are pigs

2. Probably embarrassed that he only lasted 2 minutes

3. His wife says he can't go out and play anymore

4. Trying to figure out a way to earn his car payment back that he spent

5. You wore him out

6. All the above

7. Don't worry about it you let him have it once in his mind you'll let him have it twice and he'll be back.

[Jojojojojojojo]

😂😂😂

[ohsheeT]

@ Jojo He will be back LOL and the next question will be if a guy came in me 3 weeks ago and the little test strip says pink does that mean I'm pregnant oops Then it will be how come my baby daddy doesn't love me like the baby's mama He wants to have sex again should I let him Because we're going to the beach today I told him he had to wear protection so he has a little umbrella hat on

[Jojojojojojojo]

That’s a disaster🥲

[ohsheeT]

course it was it's because I forgot the question LOL

[inhua]

because he got what he wanted from you

[AviatorTom]

That's what a hookup is. Two random individuals meet for sex, that's it. Tgst usually takes done time to set up the hookup, during which there may be many texts and calls. But once you two hookup, you usually go your own ways.

[RavVid]

If it is a hook up then he is not a boyfriend. I've heard it before that girls expect boyfriend behavior from a hook up. It doesn't make sense.

[ProbablyClueless]

Post-nut clarity. Also, sometimes the guy just never wanted anything more.

[Kabluie]

Because we got another hookup date the next day, and maybe one after that too. Some are good regulars and some are just temporary.

[Andres77]

Because you gave up the only thing that gave you worth in their eyes.

[Staximus]

Because only hoes "hookup", and any guy with half a brain doesn't turn a hoe into a housewife

[kellytheman]

That’s all they wanted was to use and hook up with you sadly.

[Grovermint]

Because, you chose a guy that only wanted sex. Women do the same thing. Move on. They're just a booty call.

[adidas0169]

A few reasons.

1. Sex sucked or blah
2. realised your not his type
3. got what he wanted that's usually the main reason.
4. he wanted more but you don't
5. you wanted more but he didn't

[gorydetails]

Because they wanted sex and you gave it to them. Your usefulness is over at that point

[FireFox001]

Because it is a hookup. You hook up and then you go your ways.

If you want more, then ask for more.

[shortster]

Most are looking for the next one.

[Guardian45]

Simple! You're picking the WRONG GUYS!

[In_Trance]

Because you have nothing else to offer

[Alex8736]

For the reason it's called a hookup

[Guido]

They got what they wanted and are now on the the next quest.

[CubaPirate]

Because they're assholes 🙄

[Jmmmfi4]

We got what we wanted now we're done