Why do guys expect us to love giving them blowjobs and not doing it just for them, meanwhile they only eat pussy to please us, not bc they love it?

Question

I recently made a poll. Half of the dudes said they do it only to please the girl, and half said that they do it both bc they love it and to please the girl. Only 1 said he does it just bc he loves it. And guys always expect us to LOVE giving them bjs and they hate it when we do it just for them and not for our own satisfaction.

strykzone · Accepted Answer

I only ever answer questions based on my own experiences and opinions, so I'll go off that.

After going through my dating 'learning' phase, I know that for me, sex is only worth having if i am emotionally connected to whomever I am doing it with. I will do whatever they enjoy, not out of obligation, but out of... I guess, it would be fair to call it worship? Of the person I'm with. If I don't love them, I don't bother.

For my partner, she is very cut off mentally with sex. Giving her oral helps to stimulate her and open her up to express herself more comfortably for further sex. I could easily do any number of other things; I know for a fact she would do anything to make me happy as she has done so prior; and thst in itself is a form of love. So, I would say that it would have to be the intent.

I love giving HER oral because I get excited that i'm pleasing HER, so that stimulates me. I'm unsure if that answers the question, but I'm all about the 'feel' of things so I did the best I could to put into words haha

Adam1978 · Accepted Answer

In the end its about willingness to give them what they want. Is no different from you want the guy to willfully give you what you want. It's better to have the attitude that you love to give it rather then seeing as a shore. Because we all know shores stops being done when possible. So this is not gender specific at all, what we want is more cultural.

Tyrael · Answer

I don't expect girls to love going it, that's absurd. I would hope that she doesn't dislike doing it because she's doing it for my sake, but that's about it.

LiamSawyer · Answer

Personally I love eating pussy.

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

I like giving oral.

Ripper_E · Answer

Ego I would never expect her to love doing it. Physically, she gets nothing out of it. So I would just enjoy it.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Most guys don't. That's just being immature.

Browneye57 · Answer

You sure whine and complain a lot. This will be your undoing, I guarantee it.

genericname85 · Answer

it's funny, cause my personal sexual experience is the exact opposite xD girls being the one just lying there not doing anything for me and expecting me to carry both of us there...

Mr1derful · Answer

For what it's worth I've eating pussy and I def give more than I receive that's for sure!

joeldalton · Answer

I love eating pussy. I don't know about these other guys.

COMMODOREII · Answer

Not true. I love eating pussy.

In_Trance · Answer

must be just the guys you're with

Joshua0213 · Answer

Do they? I don't know id rather give then receive lol

Seppel · Answer

We don't expect girls to love it. Most girls Who does it to me love it without me expecting anything

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Because we want you to enjoy doing it

Silvius · Answer

I love eating pussy

Anonymous · Answer

I think I am the guy that said he loves it in the poll... I know I’m not the only one. I’ve had conversations with other guys that feel the same way. And I agree with you 100%. And nothing beats getting OS from someone who you can tell LOVES to do it, as opposed to someone who just seems to be doing it out of obligation. I think I had that happen once and I was like, “You can stop.” Haha!

Anonymous · Answer

I thought that the second option said I love the taste? Having never had the opportunity to taste a girl's pussy; I voted for doing it to please her. But given the opportunity I would love to eat a girl out all day long.