Why do guys feel bad and dissatisfaction after ejaculating?

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  • I want to say this without it sounding insulting, because it is not meant that way.

    We are biologically programmed to desire women so intensely that we be constantly pursue them in order to mate. This sexual drive causes us to have sex with women that we might not otherwise want to be associated with. We can be extremely sexually attracted to a women and then as soon as we orgasm that cloud lifts and we realize what we have just done.

    I remember when I was younger being attracted to various girls that were "ugly" but I wanted to fuck them extremely badly. After jerking off I would feel this regret or embarrassment over being so driven to jerk off to them. I rarely feel that way anymore because I understand why it happens. It is nature's way of ensuring the propagation of the species.

    Just to be clear, when I was a teen I didn't feel this way about every girl. I lusted after most of the hot and attractive girls but of the remainder I didn't desire sex from most of them, but there were some ugly ones or fat ones that made me desire them sexually until I ejaculated. I talked to my friends and they all had similar experiences. Some of us lusted after the same ugly girls and some of them had unique objects of their lust

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  • Many reasons possible, among them being they were remorseful because they really didn't feel good about having sex, but the situation and their sexual drive drove them to it anyway. Or, they may not have had the experience they were expecting, or were feeling bad about having sex with a girl, when they had a girlfriend that they should have been faithful to, and some guys expect the fireworks every time, and it doesn't always happen that way, etc.

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  • Is that your experience? It’s not mine. Sounds unusual.

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  • I don't. Is this common among the men you have sex with? Are they ejaculating form sex with you? Do you get satisfied?

  • The term for that is "post nut clarity."
    After men cum, they completely lose sexual desire during their refractory period and think really clear and calm (its hormones).
    If he isn't to you romantically/ to start with, he might feel bad after ejaculating and might not want to spend time with your further. It's the ultimate test to see if its just purely lust he feels for you, or lust and love (and he wants to spend time with you and considering you as a romantic partner).

    • perfectly said,,,

  • We don’t that’s a load of bollox (no pun intended)

  • If that's what happens when guys are sexual with you it sounds like the lovemaking session is not good

    Do they rush it? They should take time for nicely relaxed, prolonged and very sensual foreplay, that always makes the follow-on sexual lovemaking feel so beautifully pleasurable

  • Not all people feel that way. For those that do it's called post nut clarity. I think similar to women who fantasize about sleeping with someone only for it to become a dud, the experience is similar the fantasy of what to become is more of an enjoy of the moment and once it's over it's disappointment.

  • religion and society has put a guilt trip on them. My mom both nudist and open minded made sure I knew very young masturbation and sex are healthy and very normal! I feel nothing but pleasure and relaxation during and after!

  • I don't! Why would I?

  • Because the girl is still there and Uber hasn't arrived yet. Jk... We don't feel bad. Ever. It's an amazing relieving feeling.

  • I don't know.
    I don't.

  • I don't.

  • I don’t.

  • We cum to our senses. It was a primal urge before brain fogging our minds.
    And we gave in to the beast.

    Either by sleeping with a girl we don't like,
    Master bathng or doing something sexually degrading or embarrassing.

    Plus men are at their peak when we hold our seed and our nutrients. More energy less depression and lazyness

  • I've never felt like that blowing a wad.

  • No, as often ejaculation is the point of the exercise.

  • Do they? I don't.

  • I never have. I love the feeling.

  • It takes a lot of a guy. It is even considered dying.

  • Who knows

  • I don’t think so

  • Because it's always too soon and I can feel and see the disappointment in whoever I'm with

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