Why do guys get mad/lose interest after seeing I’m a virgin or realising I don’t have much sexual experience?

Guys reactions: rejecting me after realising I’m a virgin

getting mad at me because he couldn’t get his d to go inside me because it was so tight and shouting at me calling me a tease me asking and asking to try again and him saying I don’t have experience he’s trying to be patient but he can’t keep putting it in for it to not work and he got really angry

another guy said it’s cute how innocent I am but wants a girl who’s naughty

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  • Well first of the first guy seems like a dunce. I wouldn't give him a second thought.

    Second guy? It is fair to want some experience. Inexperience does not in any way mean less naughty, in fact people who remain virgins a little longer (in my very own biased experience) tend to be a little more naughty than normal.

    Ultimately though they're both outliers and most guys won't react like that. So no need to give up on us yet. Just find one you like who likes you back the same.

    Aaaand lastly, the whole too tight thing tends to have to do with being too nervous and not actually with the virginity itself. To be on the safe side, if you can have fun and feel good on your own you don't need to worry at all. If that is continually painful, its fairly common but warrants a doctor's visit.
    You're allowed to be nervous. It all gets a lot easier when you're not, eventually.

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  • So I'm confused your a virgin but you guys tried to have sex it was so tight he couldn't go in. Is he even doing foreplay to help get you wet? Maybe he feels insecure because he can't get it in. As for guys not liking virgins. They probably see it as you will make them wait a long time or till marriage, and we're in a world where a lot of people have sex within a week of knowing each other. But never feel obligated to it's your body. Also virgins almost always get attached to the first person they have sex with, and they might just be looking for a little fun with no commitment

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It is okay... Your time will come once you are married. The Virgins all have high Value.

  • Those are some pretty sad reactions from the guys not gonna lie. It sounds like to me they both had shitty motivations from the beginning. Not all guys are like that I promise

  • They was looking for easy sex with a ho, but there are a lot of guys that want a virgin.

  • ? Strange... that's my preference tho

  • Seems like thats your fantasy

  • Most guys like a virgin

  • I don't know. Never rejected anybody because of that. And there is still a lot that can be done except for the actual sex if she wants to wait.

  • Wow.. thats just wrong.. the right guy would be understanding and work with you. I hope you find the right guy.

  • That seems like a pretty messed up reaction by the guy. I wouldn't consider his reaction normal.

  • Strange…a lot of guys prefer women that are pure.

  • I don't, only the "bad boy" soyboy idiots do