Why do guys get turned on by how much anal sex hurts us?

Not that you guys know how it feels to have something rammed up your butt over and over but sometimes it seemed like the more pain I’m in the rougher my ex would be. Anal hurts it’s mostly a good manageable pain that makes me feel submissive but sometimes it’s a really bad pain.

Look guys anal hurts for us!! Especially when he just rams it in too fast it feels like you’re being stabbed! Literally!!

My ex knew this and he would just shove it in to make it hurt me. He would joke with his friends about how I would scream and beg him to take it out. He would practically rape me while I begged him to hurry and finish then he would tell me sorry for the butthurt. He really had fun doing that and when he told me he liked to do that on purpose I was SO MAD!!! 😡

Why do guys get turned on by hurting us with anal sex?
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  • Your guy is a physio and doesn't respect you, someone who really like you or loves you would never do that if it hurts you. Making fun of you in front of his friend it's even worse. To be true, you should breakup. If he doesn't understand your pain, he doesn't understand you in any way. He is just playing with you !

  • I tried once but my girlfriend found it painful. Thereafter never thought of anal because I believe in enjoyment for both, not only mine.

  • To be honest, i didn't know that until i see this question. I have a very big dick and i like anal sex so much since my early sexual experiences. Maybe that's why i like it that much.

  • I don't get the idea of fucking a girl from her shit hole while she has a warm wet vagina made especially for that purpose

  • I really don't see the appeal of anal sex.

  • "Not that you guys know how it feels to have something rammed up your butt over and over" I'm bisexual so I *do* know.

  • If i was hurting my girlfriend, i would slow down or stop if needed. I don't just ram it in, because i might hurt myself and it wouldn't feel as good unless it was lube a lot

  • yes it's a massive turn-on, we assume you endure pain because you like it, surely otherwise you wouldn't let us do it again?

  • I don't think I can do it if the pain isn't pleasurable for my girlfriend. She says she likes it, if she didn't or said it hurts, I probably wouldn't do anal with her.

  • Didn't know i did

    tell me oh wise one how turned on i get by how anal hurts?

    give me a break

  • You have to communicate that to you partner sometimes as my we get lost in the moment and how good it feels. Just communicate and he won't do that and if he does dont give it to him anymore

  • Some guys just like to be rough in general. I tend to be more gentle with my women. I will say that I do like to make it hurt on rare occasion, just because I like to feel good about having a big dick, but it's not a continuous thing.

  • If they do then they are misogynistic assholes

  • I am not into inflicting pain on women

  • Specifically which guys?

  • That’s disgusting 🤢 All that fecal material 💩and bacteria 🦠.
    Give me a pussy any day.

  • Im not turn on by the fact that it hurt personnaly and i love anal

  • Basically the feeling of domination

  • They feel like their small dicks are big if they hurt you.

  • It's a domination thing for most of us. Only sadists get turned on by causing pain.

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