Why do guys hate/slut-shame sex-workers but also use their service?

[Anonymous]

I do not know any guy who does not watch porn but also hate on these girls who do this job for example. I have seen a lot guys calling these girls whores etc.

[knottywriter]

I personally do not slut shame or hate on sex workers for doing what they do because I respect what they do and as adults they make their own choice to do that. And to be fair, some of them make decent movies... ones that could actually be movies even without the sex. Here is my guess though as to why the ones who do slut shame and hate on them do it...

They want to hide the fact they enjoy watching it themselves. Maybe they have an appearance to keep up that makes them "wholesome" and watching porn or whatever they are into would be totally unacceptable for their image. It is their dirty secret that they are ashamed of within themselves and they make themselves feel better about it is degrading someone else that is part of the industry they are feeling the shame for being a part of. So the slut-shaming they do is simply them projecting the shame they feel onto the reason the feel ashamed.

That's just my theory but I don't know if that would be accurate or not.

[Jjpayne]

It's a great question... I think part of it depends on which guy you talk to, some have different views on it. For example, some enjoy causal sex while others want to wait until their married. Those are two different spectrums. Now one thing that I agree with that others might not, is we all have a choice. You can choose what we want. But I do want to say that not every choice is beneficial. Each person has to make up in their minds the pros and cons of their choice. Aside from that... If two consenting people agree on the transaction then it should be a transaction. Much like if two people want to be "friends with benefits" what's interesting to me, is when friends with benefits becomes a money exchange then it's taboo 🤔

[alice55]

Culture, they're like this because their elder didn't respect those girls and so they do the same but they also learned it was manly and normal to want to have sex all the time.

That's just a big hypocrisy.

[scarlett774]

Guys who slut shame woman are just pathetic and hypocritical.