Why do guys have sex with you and then never talk to you again?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I know I have never done that even if I thought it wouldn't work out I would never just ghost someone if we slept together. I think often times warning signs are ignored when first getting to know someone. Sadly I have seen many girls not learn the lesson long term. "I mean he broke up with me with a single sentence text before but I can give him another chance" "Hmmm this guy seems flashy and good looking but doesn't seem to be looking for a relationship should I try dating a guy who does. . . eh maybe next time" "Maybe I need to branch out and try dating a different kind of guy. . . but this new guy with similar looks and behavior patterns as the last is putting in minimum effort to get to know me I'll go with him!" (Obviously I am exaggerating the dialogue but each of those scenarios played out that way in real life from what I witnessed and how they tried to explain their reasoning). But, hey what do I know.

Johnny4473 · Accepted Answer

You're probably having sex too soon. Don't give it away for free girl, if you don't want to.

It's your body and your choice to have sex with guys you wanna be with. Hold off sex for some time and judge the person, if you truly think he is right for you.

YesterdaysChild · Accepted Answer

You got played! If you give out the prize before the race there is nothing left to work for. They already got what they wanted. I'm pretty sure you already know this.

musicbrain5 · Accepted Answer

Because he got what he wanted, sex. If he was looking for a girlfriend, he would want to talk to you and see you outside of the bedroom.

Pyrofox · Answer

For a lot of guys sex is like a conquest/journey no feelings attached. Its like the ideology of Post Nut Clarity.

Samantha36 · Answer

Because they got what they wanted. Iv done the same to guys too

SnowedIn · Answer

You answered your own question.

sepehril · Answer

They don't care about you. Just want sex.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Because once they have had what they want they move onto the next person

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Post nut clarity. Maybe the sex wasn't that great. Maybe the relationship just changed. Or, it could just be something within himself that he realized he just can't handle an emotional connection at the moment.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Because sex is all they wanted from you.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Men will walk all over you if you let them. Choose better next time.

Rob19881 · Answer

Because they are assholes

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Because they can. You let them. And those guys got what they wanted

Alex-Snow · Answer

I hate to heart this. It is probably cause they just want to say they have had one more girl to screw and have an orgasm with. Has this happened to u?

DextroShade · Answer

They see you as recreational use only. Do you have tattoos, piercings, stupid colored hair, or slutty pics on social media?

clampfan101 · Answer

I have no idea. Thankfully not all men are like that. I’m waiting until marriage.

Lokiion · Answer

Some only have to goal of sex with you.  Others just lose attraction in you.  Others feel guilty and can’t look at you anymore post nut clarity is a thing.