Why do guys hold a girls stomach down when fingering her?

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normalice · Accepted Answer

The angle, maybe? The only time I've done that was when I was fingering a girl from behind while she was on top. Although, we were having anal sex at the time and when I pushed her down far enough i could feel my cock moving around under her belly with my hand. That was sexy, but seemed too much like masturbation to do it for long - I'm not fond of masturbation, myself, though it's quite likely or other men are.

In so many words, maybe he likes feeling the bulge his dick makes in your body. Or maybe he is making your body tighter by squeezing it. Of course none of this applies if he's not havin sex with you while fingering you. And my experience with this is only anal. I'd imagine the bulge is also present with vaginal but can't confirm.

guitarnovice · Accepted Answer

Wow even the 40 yr old guy with the most to say still doesn't know why? Come on guys have you never made a girl squirm while fingering her before? You know if you don't hold her you can't keep hitting that spot just right, right? Arm on or around the abdomen, depending on the position, to hold her in place as she jerks, twiches, and thrusts. Not squeezing to where she can't breathe or it causes pain. But enough to where she doesn't roll off the bed or headbutt the wall. It's really good when you hold her from behind. One hand fingering and the other holding her boob on the side closest to your fingering hand. That way you can position your forearm under her other boob and squeeze it with your bicep.

ReneeTight · Accepted Answer

To keep control on her body because she is squirming around.

MrOracle · Answer

Because if you are fingering her the right way, her hips will be bucking like a bronco, and you need to keep her from bucking off of your fingers. When she's cumming, you need to maintain the motion and pressure, but that's not easy to do when she's bouncing around, so you help keep her in place so she gets those orgasms that she (and you) have worked hard to get.

sadMeester · Answer

Do you mean the mons? Maybe they're pushing your stomach down to see your face better.

Tututwerl09 · Answer

Pressure to make her squirt

centerline · Answer

mostly its a place to put our other hand, and its feels good to us... I love to rub a womans tummy, or place my hand on it and just feel the softness of the skin under my fingertips...