This is a complicated question, because it really depends on the guy. Some guys become bored easily with their sexual partner and do fantasize about others during sex, because they don’t want to hurt the feelings of the one they’re with, and they are connected to their lover not just on a physical level, but an emotional one as well, therefore, again, they don’t want to hurt their lover’s feelings. There is also the concept that males like having multiple partners. It is engrained in the male psyche to mate with as many females as they’re able to in order to pass on their genes into the next generation. Archaic, I know, but still the truth. Girls feel the same drive. They try to find the strongest, most successful, most attractive, physically, to mate with, because they wanted to be impregnated by the best mate to ensure their offspring are the strongest possible to, again, ensure survival. Like I said, this is a complicated question. If it really bothers you that your partner may be doing this to you during sex then confront him about it and be honest with him that you don’t like it or you want to know why he’s doing it. Depending on the answer you receive you’ll then have to choose whether or not you want to spend the rest of your life with this person or seek someone else. I believe no matter how many opinions on this subject you read it is going to boil down to what you…. what you…. want in a partner. Do what you feel is best for you and that’s the bottom line.
This really isn't a real thing. Most married men i know when they are having sex dont think about other women when they are with their wives, Masturbation is a different story though. The couple might role play as different people to spice things up but thats the extent.
I sure hope it isn't, but it actually is to a majority of people. Im not part of them though.
Women do the exact samw thing... it's just human nature... it's not right, but sometimes our minds r elsewhere.
U have to keep his attention. And vice versa...
Bad wifey 😈😈
@redeyemindtricks LOL!!! I wasn't talking about ME...
mhm.
Women do this sometimes too. Your mind just wanders. Humans aren't naturally monogamous - it's hard work to stay that way.
Yes i know and i have said that some women do it too, i just dudnt say all cause i myself am a woman, but i dont and i can't ever do that.
It usually doesn't start to happen until you've been together a while.
Isn't this what roleplay is for? If you have a fantasy let me play the part so we can both enjoy it.
No its different because you dont imagine them doing it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It's just fantasy and it's absolutely harmless.
To us guys sex is as much about the mental stimulation as the physical stimulation. We fantasize about situations with other women we may and may not know and how erotic sex is with them.
It has nothing to do with how we feel about the woman we are having sex with.
We do have to be careful not to call out some other woman's name lol
Why doesn't it have anything to do with how you feel about that woman? Im sure it does, you think she's sexually attractive thats why you imagine having sex with her. If not, she wouldn't appear in your mind.
You didn't ask me this question, but I wanted to offer and opinion anyway. It doesn't have anything to do with the woman in question, because typically for males, sex is about 90% mental and only about 10% physical. The guy having sex with a girl may be totally into her and find her beautiful, but because of how guy's minds work, this doesn't prevent them from thinking about that sexy nurse they say on TV or the girl who served them coffee down the street. Males have an instinctual drive to mate and when they're not mating, they're thinking about the next time they'll be inside a girl and when they're inside a girl, they can be thinking about the other girl they want to have sex with just as soon as they're finished with the one they're currently with. And if the male is weak and is unable to control such instincts, then unfortunately a woman could be with a girl with little to no self-control or compassion for how his actions would affect her if she what was in his head.
I would be legitimately bothered if I did this so I don't know,
I didn't know this was even a real thing, personally I've never done it and don't even see how it's possible, I'd generally be too distracted by the actual woman I'm in bed with
Im like you too, but i heard there are a lot of people who does this.
We do?
Research has shown just as many girl do this too.
I never said women dont do it, im just saying some because i am a woman myself and i dont or can't see myself doing it.
Good, so you can ask question to anyone. Anyway, people do it because people need more and more stimulant. In general, whatever people have today, it won't be enough tomorrow.
Because pussy is better than an oiled hand. Even if we do have to think of someone else or watch porn while getting a BJ to get off. The same pussy gets old and mundane sooner or later, may take 3 months or 5 years but it always happens.
1/ be the best lover they ever had and they'll not only think about you WITH you, but while with other girls after you breakup...
2/ personally I get sexually very devoted to the woman I'm with-to the point of masturbating TO pictures of her when we're not having sex, she's gone, whateve. r
Ever watched the same movie over and over again? You'd probably wanna watch another movie after a while.
Yes but i dont feel that way to the man im with. And i sure hope he doesn't feel the same way to me too.
because eating hamburger everyday gets less stimulating.
I never did. do you have any stats on that? it's interesting.
Good for you. Go research the stat online.
That's your job sweeheart
I want whoever I'm fucking.. women come in all different shapes and sizes and in the end.. all that matters is her pussy being wet and pulsing..
The majority of men? I dont believe that.
Why do girls do the exact same thing.
So do girls
As you can see, i have said on the description that some girls do it too, i just dont say all because im a girl myself and i dont or can't ever find myself doing it.
If I was bored with them or not as physically attracted to them I would but normally I don't
Yes for the first time with opposite gender it will be okay when we are doing for next time everyone will lost the interest in sex and they were thinking of someone and doing sex
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