Why do guys just want sex?

A lot of people tell me this and I don’t believe it with all guys but I want to figure out why some guys just want sex out of a relationship or they still have a relationship afterwards and just treats you like crap.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'll happily answer the question in depth, and I'm a guy who prefers relationships, but before I do, please answer the following question:

    What advantages, besides sex, come to a man by being in a relationship, compared to just having casual sex? In other words, if YOU were a man, and you had the priorities and perspective of a man, what are the advantages of a relationship?

    The reason I ask this question is because women who ask *your* question never have an answer to mine - and, you'd think that would be the first thing they would try to figure out.

  • Speak from a guy who is not all about sex but let me describe this for you. Let's say you actually didn't need to breathe but you feel that lack of air of holding your breath. That pain that you just need to breathe. What if we were underwater and I have a scuba tank. How long can you fire that desire to breathe? 1 hour? 2 hour? Sex is just as desirable as breathing almost as if you have too even if you know you dont. Its built into us to have this feeling. Ok the breathing thing is exaggerated but I do that too show how that desire feels unsatisfied.

Most Helpful Girls

  • For the majority of men, that's all they want. If you were to offer men a choice between a loving relationship and sex or simply as much sex as he wants, a lot of them would not put up with the pressures of a relationship.

    If I were a man, I would do the same thing. Much less risk involved. The only men that I can see denying this are those who haven't been getting laid frequently, are virgins, or men over 40 who are more stable, mature, and unwilling to die alone.

    • Not likely its not all about that. Dont paint all of us with the same brush... people tend to do that.

    • I didn’t paint you all with the same brush. Please learn how to read.

    • You don't get it. Just like others. Always looking for the negative.

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  • Girl, it's just the way of the world. Some guys want to flit from flower to flower pollenating... Not interested in anything serious. Some have a "relationship" to have regular sex and end up treating the person in it with them badly. You have to take your time to find out who is who.

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  • There is only one reason why men exist. There is only one reason why women exist. That's to have sex. There is no other reason.

    • sick philosophy bro lol what a magical world you must live in

    • @Shamalien It's a true statement. Or perhaps you can come up with another reason why there are two sexes?

    • I think you need to expand your mind. You're Freud, I'm Jung

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  • It makes them feel good to "win"... feel powerful. maybe they are learning.
    it's easier than committing and getting hurt or torn to shreds.
    because they don't know what they want, but they know they want sx.
    because they lack empathy, and they don't care about the other

  • Earlier in life I only involved myself in casual, sexual relationships because I was more focused on school than anything else. I did not want to divide my time by getting into anything serious

  • That's not true

  • I DEFINITELY want sex. And lots of it. From slow passionate lovemaking to wild kinky sex. I also want a "partner" that is honest and loyal. One that loves me and is as serious about our relationship as I am. I haven't found that in a while.

  • Because most girls don't have much else to offer

    • b-b-b-BINGO!!!

  • Not just guys okay many many women too

  • Not all guys are like this but there are a lot who just use women as a way of getting pleasure, going out for sex...

  • Not me there's way more important things Your not just a sex toy.

    • ... but so many girls are just a sex toy...

  • I will tell you women are hornier than men it is they don't just Express it. I realized it everytime when the women is in bed with me.