Why do guys keep asking 'will you give me bj' and spoiling the mood rather than going with the flow and let the women initiate?

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Does it sound amateur approach or a pro player approach?
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  • Why should guys spoil their mood by having to initiate everything from the first date onwards rather than going with the flow and waiting on girls to initiate? Why not leave the controls in your hands and defer to other women who are actually validated by an assertive man who shows interest and desire?

    Put another way, if you actually care, we shouldn't have to ask.

    • "if you actually care, we shouldn't have to ask" So, by your logic if we are not giving blowjobs, we do not care about our partner?

    • @PrettyPriya If he wants them, and most men do, yes.

    • Ok so by that logic, you don't care about us if you don't do the dishes or other chores without being asked

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Most Helpful Guy

  • To make sure you don’t forget :9. He can’t HOPE you do something specific. He probably imagines two scenarios. 1: he asks for it and you give it. 2: he doesn’t ask for it and you might not do it because you didn’t think of it because he didn’t ask you.


    And as a man he might be thinking less about “the mood” and the flow of events, thinking asking won’t hurt the mood too much and is worth it to guarantee you know what he wants.



    The same goes for anything. Reminders.

    • I’m not saying he’s right to ask, I’m just saying what I think he’s thinking.

Most Helpful Girl

  • That's where I happily plant myself on his face. If he wants some before I'm ready, then I want some too

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • i dunno but i dont say that.

  • No idea, but it's annoying.

  • Some guys have no class.

  • Amatuer approach. I would be going down on her first anyway.

  • Let him go down first

  • What was the context of him asking? Like you where making out groping and he just asked? Or was he trying to get more and you shut the door and he then asked for a BJ?

  • I don't know. Maybe they are inpatient I know that would usually be a mood killer so I don't do that. I know they will get there eventually. So, I just enjoy the foreplay. No need to rush.

  • I guess a man had better whip it out and spray some whip cream on it or wrap a diamond necklace around it 😂.


    If you got to ask she ain't gonna do it, thats why i rather have sex asap to see what type of woman I'm dealing with, no head is a deal breaker

  • Lol I never in my life asked for a BJ xD.

    As a matter of fact, I usually decline even if the girl initiates, because I don't like bjs.

  • Women hardly ever initiate shit lol.

  • some men are really fool!

  • Wrong approach

  • Thank u. It's much better going with the flow and having the girl ask if she can suck ur cock

  • Just do it already

  • Well there is only one thing to say 'greedy idiots'

    • That is not a pro player approach is a desperate approach

    • A man and a pro never asks for anything, things happen naturally and very intensely and with a lot of passion. You don't ask for things sexually is bad taste, unless it is about some weird kinks which well just need to be discussed before anyway.