Why do guys like thots over good women?

[Anonymous]

My ex always likes photos of thots. Recently he liked a photo of a thot with the caption, "cum in me". It made me really sad/upset. My ex and I broke up because he was constantly entertaining thots by liking their pictures despite knowing how I feel about it. I couldn't understand why he'd like those kinds of photos when I hold myself to a higher standard. I felt like he was choosing thots over me. He's the only man I know who openly likes photos of nasty women. Sometimes the same women over and over again. He claimed he wanted me because I wasn't like that. Yet he constantly liked their photos and dumped me because I disagreed with it.

[arineunha]

its not all guys who like thots, it just you picked the wrong guy. when in a relationship you have to set boundaries. this guy was trash for disrespecting you like that, also he kind of seemed to be using you from your other posts. I know its your first relationship, but yeah he's bad news

[kaylaS91]

Because thots don't spend half as much time bitching and moaning about how other people get more of what they want (ie. male attention) and are smart enough to instead channel their focus/energy towards actually GETTING what they want.

[Asker]

So basically all women should be easy and use their bodies to get it attention? Thots don't require their men to be a good and honest man because they aren't being good or honest themselves.

[kaylaS91]

No. Most women (in rl at least) have next to no issue using other means to get attention. Since you're asking specifically about thots, though- that's the answer.
I can't imagine anyone enjoying themselves around someone who enjoys berating others for one reason or another, when the only redeeming quality they seem to have is using their modesty as bait. (so basically not that different than thots, only that the self proclaimed 'good women' pretend like making men have to put in time+effort in order to gain access to their bodies somehow makes them better?)
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[Asker]

well I'm not a self proclaimed good woman and I don't enjoy berating people? I'm a good person. I'm giving, loyal, honest, and respectful. I couldn't even imagine using my body for male attention. I don't want it. The only attention I wanted was from my ex but he was giving it to thots on Facebook.

[kaylaS91]

I never aimed that at you but okay.. What kind of attention are you hoping to get from your ex? 100% platonic, and nothing more, right?

[Asker]

I'm not just saying that. My ex was my first real relationship. He's the first and only guy I've slept with in 5 years. I put time & effort into our relationship because I thought that's what you're supposed to do.

[kaylaS91]

okay either way, you're hoping to get back to that stage where you're MORE than friends. In a romantic relationship, and what fuels romance? Sex. Sex and reproduction is essentially why we have a libido in the first place. Just like you're free to believe that the 'right way' to go about getting that is through getting to know how compatible your personalities or whatever are, thots are equally justified in being more upfront and to the point about what they want as well as have to offer.

[Asker]

my ex didn't have to put in any effort. We had sex on the first date. We had sex anytime we wanted. He couldn't afford to do much for me so I didn't expect it. I paid for everything and often visited him because he didn't even have a car. He struggled a lot so they only thing I wanted was for him to be honest and loyal. I'm 23 and he was my first boyfriend. im not trying to berate anyone I'm just truly confused.

[Greatcat]

Don't listen to this cunt, what you are doing is not bitching and moaning, it's perfectly justified. Especially when there are so few good women out there, if you are willing to be as good to him as you said you were and 100% faithful the entire time with no 'slip ups' or anything then he should fuckoff with encouraging whores publicly. If he wants to anonymously support some sick fetish in the dead of night with tor or w/e with porn and stuff in my opinion that's not nearly as bad. Still, encouraging sluttery in an age of thots is fucking poison, especially when he's dating someone like you. I'm on the brink of just thinking all women are thots, like many guys, going on a date with a pastor's daughter this week hopefully she'll prove me wrong fingers crossed. As far as finding a good man which I'm sure you are interested in, look for the ones who haven't fucked a bunch of thots... they are probs gunna be pretty weird and isolated but not always, thot culture destroys good men tho...

[kaylaS91]

@Greatcat LOOOOOOOOOOOOL awe. you sound just a wee bit bitter.

[UrMomsTripleChin]

Girl, if you’re a thot just say that… 🤣🙄

[kaylaS91]

@UrMomsTripleChin Ok, will do. I’ve got a pretty good body and am smart enough to use that to my advantage. 👌🏻

[Anonymous]

He finds them hot in his case, but also looks down on them, or thinks they can't be faithful. so they turn him on then he dates some - to him - less fun girl who doesn't fuck other guys.

Either that or they're just out of his league.

[Asker]

Some of them yes, some of them were just average.

[Anonymous]

Because thots make our cocks hard. Of course thots are instable and relationship destroyers like what happened to you and your man. I find that girls can bit of a little thot from time to time, but only for their boyfriends.

[schapman28]

what's a thot?

[NJ_Casanova]

WTF is a Thots?

[cooldude25]

Thirsty Ho Over There

[Chadster]

Most decent guy's don't prefer thots.

[Decentguy]

Thot? what is thot?

[Asker]

In my opinion, thots are women who dress and act provocatively.

[Decentguy]

ohh. well not all guys go over woman like that

[Smarter]

You should stop dating boys like that. he never had your interest good thing he did.

[Snoopy90]

It's just a like, it would be different if he was commenting sexual stuff

[Pepperjack]

Because thots act sexual, guys are suckers for anything sexual its in our nature

[cooldude25]

They are good to bang a few times.. wouldn't see myself in a relationship with one... just use 'em for fun.

[Anonymous]

If a girl likse you it does not matter if she was a thot before, all that goes out of the window.

[Anonymous]

they are good for amusement purposes only, not real relationships.

[Anonymous]

They put out more.

[Asker]

We had sex all of the time.

[Opinion Owner]

They look physically attractive to him.