He sounds like he's either really selfish (and may not know it) or inexperienced.
Just let him know it hurts. Next time you're in a bed, just lay down, have a conversation, create a vibe that instegates more compassionate sex. If he's being that rough, he's not thinking about you. Guys do that sometimes, especially inexperienced ones who never stopped to think how a woman's body works.
Seriously, just lay down together have a conversation while you're doing your thing. A guy like that needs to start off slow.
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I feel like it is a huge lie that men like rough sex. All I ever hear from female friends aquintances and just general life experience, is women lamenting that their man doesn't do rough sex.
Nearly every girl I ever dated wanted me to do some kind of choking or biting or just straight up play rape.
It's WOMEN who like rough sex. I think men only do it because we realize what women want. Andnwe try to give it to you because we are afraid if we do not, that you will move on to someone else.
I work as a manager in a retail store and I work with teenage girls all the tim3. They're always saying rough sex things to eachother. Talking about beingnbent over and dominated at age 16.
Meanwhile 16 year old boys are CLUELESS as to what girls and women want.
Maybe there are some FEW guys who want rough sex. Those few who were attractive at a young age and learned very early what these females want.
It's WOMEN who want rough sex. Not men.0 0 0 0Well I didn’t want rough sex lol
It's not all women for sure. I'd argue 50% but really I believe it's like 80% of women who want some form of rough sex. Rough sex is a spectrum. And even the light stuff, most guys are clueless about. And if you include the lightest end of the rough sex spectrum, the percentage of women who want at least some form of it gets up into the 80%+ range in my opinion. That's all my own experience though. I also have female friends and I am not judgmental. Women will tell the truth to men who are not judging them. And I get the truth a lot from women. It's not bad. I don't think it's a bad thing. I know that generally society would probably look down on what I see as the reality of female sexuality. I love women and it's OK that they're freaks. Men would better off if we were freaky too. But with men there's a danger because a man with a rape fetish might just decide to actually rape a woman. So it's not exactly equal on both sides. I think that men are disconnected from freaky sex because we are incapable of submissive acts. We are taught that to submit is equal to femininity and equal to homosexuality. So most men are completely cut off from such things, our brains aren't capable of. it because our entire world view is toxic masculinity. Don't get me started I could type all day.
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So blame porn and then grabbing Thier dicks so hard that our pussy pressure feels like nothing to them!
Gotta yank Thier dicks hard for them to enjoy it!
There is rough cause we want it and feels good then there is guys just going rough cause they wanna which sucks and hurts a lot!
I'd so end it with him cause will only get worse! Imagine if he tied you up and did that!
0 0 0 0Never cared much for rough sex, but have enjoyed lots of kinky stuff which usually was never rough sex.
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7 43Some guys only want what they want. They're selfish and they cannot even read a girl's eyes the color of her cheeks the way she breathes the way she moans the way she moves her body and he just takes it from her
If that's what the girl is into all the above will tell you what she wants without her saying one word if you know how to read it
For me I want to go the slowest of motions and deep I mean slow slow motion and so deep and build up to that hot passion roughness.
When having sex making love is all about her and I can adapt to anything that she wants without her saying anything just let her eyes speak
If I do that I can make it so intense for her that she just wants to explode and explode and explode and explode and for me that's what it's all about is to take her to those places
Because every time I take her to a place she's going to take me right there just with the look of In her eyes The Way she moves or moans. I want the girl to want to do it again and again I don't want to make it so she doesn't want to do it again I want to make it perfect as possible0 0 0 0As a guy, I don’t. I value natural and romantic sex that is loving and caring.
0 0 0 0They are control freaks
0 0 0 0That is not my style, but I think some guys enjoy domination and inflicting some pain and discomfort. Yes, it is sick.
0 0 0 0I don't I prefer slower sex so I can enjoy every second
0 0 0 0He want to show you how strong he is, and also likely a sadist, so he like making you cry.
0 0 0 0I don't know catfish, you tell me.
0 1 0 0Communicate your desires to them. Tell them how you want to be fucked. Most woman that I know like it rough as do I so most guys think that too
1 1 0 0Meanwhile you are fine taking it rough… in your butthole
Sorry but sex is best way to express your physical feelings physical love towards your girl friend and give joy to your girlfriend not hurt.. According to me rough sex is bad when your girl friend always feel hurt even after finishing the Sex... Sorry if you not like my reply..
0 0 0 0I don't. It is best to let the female direct how she likes it. Though, the recent focus on squirting demands a more vigorous activity. Frankly, I am too old for that.
0 0 0 0They don't all do, this is normally a porno influenced action mostly when it's as rough as you mentioned to the point you are in tears and pain, using a woman as a sex toy and not caring about their emotions or pleasure is a porno created idea and influence, you are pleasing the wrong kind of men unfortunately
1 0 0 0You are correct
If the guy was circumcised, he probably needed to get rough to have enough stimulation
0 0 0 0It would only be a turn on for me if I know she wants to be treated that way. If I thought for a second she might not, I would find that a turn off.
0 0 0 0It’s nice.
0 0 0 1Some guys like it rough because it feels good to them I might not be a guy but I know how what rough sex feels like I'm a female and I like it rough just not the choking rough I'm not into that
0 1 0 0I don't like it rough. I prefer it passionate
0 0 0 0Honestly it depends on what my partner is into. I try to get a feel for what she likes. Not everyone is into rough sex and I wouldn't force things if I get the sense that my woman is not into that.
0 0 0 0I think it's women who want to be dominated more so I'd say it's more women. When I was much younger, I learned this on first one night stand where there I was trying to make love lol
0 0 0 0during sex for me the guy is in control I am just a toy for his to be as rough as he wants with my one thing is to set a few rules first
1 0 0 0Sex should not hurt. He should use more foreplay and use some lube next time
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