Why do guys like women's assholes so much?

This is a serious question - I really am very curious. Some guys seem to be "obsessed" with wanting women's assholes - wether to lick, put their cock in there, or whatever. Can someone let me in on why? Does it feel different to screw there then in the vagina?

Girls - does it feel different to you to get screwed there then in the vagina?

I'm obviously confused by this.

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  • Never really been my thing, personally. I’m not offended by it, it’s just part of the landscape, but I don’t think of it as a sexual orifice. That said, I’ve done that stuff, lmfao…. but it was by the lady’s request. And I guess that’s where I’m at: by request only. But that’s not part of our repertoire with my girlfriend, so it’s just not really a thing. My only other real serious girlfriend was the one I’ve tried it with. It was whatever, and it was towards the end, plus we were young, so I don’t think we really figured out what we were doing with it, haha. All the girls in between were short-timers, and none of them seemed to be offering butt stuff on the menu, and I wasn’t looking for it, so it just never really happened again.

    I wouldn’t rule it out completely in the future, but unless we have a change of heart, I don’t think we’re going to go down that road, and that’s fine with me. I don’t remember being particularly taken by it in my very limited experience, but all in all, it’s my third favorite option, haha. I don’t really get the hype.

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  • I don't understand the obsession.

    I did it once with a girlfriend to see what it was like. She was hypersexual and orgasmic and said okay.

    I used a rubber to keep poop off of my dick. I used lots of lube.

    It was tight. She took it like a champ. I came, but she didn't.

    I never asked for it again and neither did she even though she loved cock and came like crazy when we had PIV sex.

    I much prefer clean, pink, juicy, responsive, self lubricating pussy that is custom made to be fucked, over a dry hole that extrudes shit.

    She did have a vibrating dildo that was a 6" long, bullet-shaped shaft about 1" in diameter. One time during doggy style, I asked if I could stick the dildo in her ass. She said okay, so I lubed it up and slipped it in. Now THAT was amazing! It felt sensational and it was erotic to fill both her holes and fill her body completely.

    She came like she was possessed and I thought I would blow a hole in her when I came. After that, we did it every once in a while.

    • liam you're obviously unaware that your descriptions expose you as a filthy creep. So you may want to cool it on those in future

    • @davado88. What's YOUR problem? Does sexuality offend your sensibilities?

    • no i just have good taste. Heed my warning or not. i dont much care unless you're a serial killer. In which case i care. Heed my warning lest you land on a cop's radar as a creep

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  • I'd never try anal because my boyfriend is... larger, so I would die. He wouldn't want to anyway because if it causes me pain it wouldn't turn him on.

    But he did put his tongue in there while eating me out from behind and uhh, I guess I'm flattered that he has that much faith in my personal hygiene practices.

    I let it happen because I knew it was clean but tbh it's not my favourite thing. I just put up with it because it really seems to do it for him and it can't really cause me any pain so I let him do it to make him happy.

    I guess maybe it's something that is taboo but it's not sadistic or cruel or anything so it feels forbidden but still isn't that intimidating. It's also just another area that only he is allowed to put his mouth on? So that makes him feel more connected to you maybe?

    • @Minxxie I put my tongue in my girlfriend's ass one time with her on her stomach and she went bonkers, and seems see liked it better than on her clitoris, so I kept doing it. She asked me if it was "clean" etc.

    • @minxxieThe 1st time I had anal was with a guy with a tiny dick. It still hurt abit but felt good at the same time. The next time was with my current boyfriend. He is a big boy and I said he'd never fit it up there. It took us nearly a year of playing with fingers, butt plugs and dildos for me to take his dick up there. I wanted to do it to please him but now I love it. You have to have complete trust in him and he had to have patience.

    • @Samantha36 It's not worth it to me whatsoever at all lmao I would not spend a year messing around with my asshole just for some dude's fetish tbh if he wanted anal that bad he could find a man to do it.

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  • Anal sex is still a taboo thing to do so it feels extra naughty. Plus it's going to feel tighter. For me as a reciever, it feels a lot tighter plus u can put a vibrator inside your vagina to give him extra pleasure. Oh and anal orgasms for both of us are so much more intense

    • Samantha… you are an anal queen

    • @LoverOfBooty23 why do you say that? It's just another sex act. You wouldn't describe me as the vaginal queen, so why anal?

    • I’ve just seen you comment on anal stuff before and you know what you are talking about and enjoy it and do it often so I view you as an anal queen. It’s a huge compliment!

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  • I don’t blame you for your confusion. I too am confused by it. As a straight only guy, I naturally am geared towards the female specific parts (vulva/vagina) which are actually and truly sexual, not the human waste disposal system.

  • I am totally turned off by anything anal and I've never had a partner ever request to use that area either.

  • The vagina is made so that it can open enough to pass a baby through. The ass is much tighter and some guys like that over the vagina. Not my cup of tea, just explaining.

    • Ok - guess that makes sense.

  • At some point during the last 10 or 11 years, my wife decided that she wanted to find out what it was like to be "rimmed". I was drunk enough to try it and she ended up really enjoying it. It is very common occurrence in our bedroom. We don't pursue anal intercourse

  • From what I know, close to the vag... aand all the more sweeter to them. Strange, I know but i've asked. 🫠

  • Because the anus is considerably smaller than the vagina, most guys aren't trying to have anal intercourse with the female. It's our tongues that we want so fervently to make contact with your anal area with -- because it symbolizes the kind of relationship we wish to engage in with you overall.

  • Anal feels very different from vaginal. Not just tightness but texture as well.

  • I'm not obsessed and by no means need it. I only go there, if it's something that turns her on. Other than that, I am fine with everything else she has to play with.👌

  • Because it's a hole

    • they like it because it's tighter

    • Lol - guys will put it in anything 😂

    • @stratford Not everybody buddy

  • Not me baby. I love the cheeks... not the hole! All that are obsessed? That means they've watched tons and tons of porn and warped what they "crave".

  • Couple of things. I personally like my tongue in it like @Minxxie's boyfriend, but the first for me was by invitation from HER. It IS tighter for a period of time, but the sphincter is just that, a sphincter, and it stretches out after a few minutes and most guys, me included, switch back and forth from the vagina to the rectum. I think it is the 'taboo' thing that attracts men to it, but my girlfriend absolutely was beside herself the first time and then once in her car, eating her out from the back with her leaning over the passenger seat back, even holding her self up with her hands on the back seat. I was just as excited. Each to his own.

  • I can't imagine traveling the Hershey Highway...
    https://th.bing.com/th/id/OIP.pjHoJfA8ygc4yNhDTvykuwHaE8?pid=ImgDet&rs=1
    When there is a perfectly fine Vagina right 'round the corner.

  • Woman icecream

  • Because it's super tight and they want to be first🙂

    • It is very tight! It’s a good time 😂😉

    • And I don't blame many women for turning them down on that 😆😂

    • (such men I mean, being turned down, I don't blame the women).,

  • It's just naughty and taboo. Anal play is much more intimate and requires more trust than vaginal.

    Honestly, vaginal sex is way better than anal.

  • I’ve never been very interested in butt stuff. I don’t get it either.

  • I like the Vagina from behind but not the bum, maybe to check it out, but that's all.

  • It is just erotic to get as intimate as possible with a woman's body.

  • Nearest I can figure, they're closet fags.

  • Well of course it feels different honey
    N lately it's more like a trend that everybody nowadays is turning to anal more n more
    N I even hav some clients who just wouldn't touch my pussy n would want to play with my ass hole only

    • I’d be one of them

    • @LoverOfBooty23 sure u r

    • Clients?

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